So I started seeing this 32yr Brazilian woman 5-6 months ago. At the time both of us made it clear that we didn't want to be anything more than friends with benefits or a fling, as she had separated and started a new job and as I was transitioning with other things and dealing with fallout from a family financial matter... nonetheless she persisted in blowing up my phone and computer and would say we are "dating"...And She would flip out when I wouldn't see her three or more days a week.. I am 26yrs so there's it's very improbable that anything could happen... anyway she use to be more respectful to me but since I told her I needed space because I was going through something she has changed her tone....While we have little in common, I know she on many occassions tells me how funny iam or how good I am in bed... (((that's the only connection))
Anyway lately she's been texting calling and telling me about all the guys that ask her out.. she's also made superficial comments about my life even though I've made more money than her in the past and played sports professionally for a bit.... we stopped seeing each other for two weeks and she wanted to bring it to my attention that she hooked up with two guys.... In my opinion, even if you're in a open relationship are dating it's low class or bad manners to state this to someone; it's assumed... at other times she will call me and tell me she care and wants to know what's up or tell me how I'm the best in bed....despite the fact that she's hot and I can share a laugh, I'm starting to think this not worth the disrespect and craziness.... (((In my opinion FWB only lasts for a month or two after 5-6 months it's a open relationship or dating)))
Anyway I would appreciate some thoughts
This makes my skin crawl a bit, obviously you two don't want the same things and she's coming off as desperate which for me is an attraction killer. "despite the fact that she's hot and I can share a laugh, I'm starting to think this not worth the disrespect and craziness" trust your gut, in all probability its right on the money here. Her behavior is protest behavior, she wants more of your investment. She's 32 and freshly out of a relationship so you're instrumental to her in distracting her from healing from her own relationship wounds.
Regardless of her motivation, she sounds like a whack job and I'd run for the hills if I were you, considering how low invested you are at the moment.