No clue man, could be, might be good to show her your social value, have her come out, show her a good time, show her how you act around your friend and other women, but if this is the case its only a small piece of the puzzle!
Things to ask you self:
From her point of view how is your social value (do you have friends, a life out side of her and hobbies)
How is your sex life: Is it boring or is it exciting, do you stimulate her mentally? do you get her off? If you can give your gf an orgasm on a weekly basis with your penis or mouth she wont need to go looking for another man.
Are you an alpha male: When she asks you a questions like "what do you want to do" do you say "I don't know you pick" or do you make tell her what you want? women want a leader not a push over.
Are you overly emotional? Its ok to tell a women when you are not happy or how you feel but its another thing to whine and throw a temper , if you don't like something be calm, state your point, and let it be known thats how you feel, no need to go on and on about it or get super emotional.
Do you invest more in the relationship then her? She should always be slightly more interested in you then you are in her, you only do nice things when she deserves them! and if she is not texting or giving you attention then its time for you to push away just slightly more then she is. Why should you go out of your way to contact her when she doesn't care? on the other hand when she does what you want you better treat her like gold! reward her.
Are you boring? Do you make her excited about seeing you? do you go out on hikes together, do try new food, do you joke around, do you do crazy stuff? or do you sit around watching movies every time she comes over? you need to excite her emotions from time to time, make get excited about hanging out with you! you should be her drug!
Another thing about that last point, being exciting and trying new things is not only a good way to keep her coming back for more but if she ever break up with you in the future it will work to your advantage in a massive way!!! If she experienced all her "firsts" with you then every other guy will seem boring, and she will remember that you made her life exciting. For example:
You take your gf to eat sushi for the first time, then you go to the sex shop with her, get her an outfit, and come home and have anal for the first time.
Now she breaks up with you and her new bf takes her to applebee's, a movie and then goes home and has boring sex....afterwords she remember how exciting your dates were, how she was always trying new things! she misses you!
Another reason to do this is for your own sanity! you can get bored as well, its not always the women who gets bored so you have to always try new things to keep that fire burning!
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