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See you guys can't grasp the middle eastern culture. I can't blame you bc you don't know what it is. Let me put it this way, if the roles were reversed and I did what she did she would definitely be upset with me.
My girl isn't liking another dudes selfie, period. Call me crazy but that's just the easy way for you guys to say "I don't understand where you're coming from". Here's another example that you all probably won't get. We don't hug the opposite sex. To you guys this is something normal. To us that's not and its disrespectful. Our cultures have different values and you need to understand that instead of saying "It's insecure. You're crazy".
@Neo It took me a whole minute to do so. But that whole minute means I can't focus on my investments and my passion? You don't know what you're talking about. You're not even reading my posts because you keep repeating the same thing after I addressed it.
@Jack Yeah her "Go." Now turned into a "babe the light is green". I trained her. I got my balls back. I have a backbone. I am leading. I am not indecisive with her. Clown all you want but her attitude adjustment tells me I'm DEFINITELY doing something right. And don't you worry, the details of how I did so will come soon for everyone's benefit.
I found my answer. This thread can be put to rest.
Thanks fellas.
See, flexbrah, you cant have it both ways. If it is your culture, then your gf is disrespecting your cultural boundaries and your own. For eg, you say hugging is a no no. Well if your girl is hugging other guys, and we say its no big deal, and you say yes in my culture and to me it is, then fine. Your girl is disrespecting your boundaries, KNOWING its against what the culture dictates. Someone in this is crazy. Either its you, for being insecure, or your girl, for knowing how she should behave, and going against that time and time again. WE don't know...fine..whats your girl's excuse? You keep saying she is so conservative, well why is she continually, beyond just having sex with you, doing things that are against your culture and her bf's boundaries?
She cusses you
She hits you
She likes guys selfies (which by your words is a no no)
She calls you a faggot
If these things are not middle eastern culture, whats the reason?
You say things are good now because you are decisive. Before you said things were good because you stopped making a big deal out of things. Either you have a shitty gf, or you're insecure. I do read what you say, hence why I can say it doesnt make sense. You made a thread abt how acting relaxed was working, now you're gonna make one on how standing up for yourself is working.
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So as of the last couple of weeks I've been really striving to become a better version of myself. Less insecure, less controlling.... you know less bad vibes and more good vibes. Cuz at the end of the day you should have the attitude of she's banging me... amirite???
Anyways -- B/c of so I noticed my girl being EXTREMELY happy as of lately. Like whoa.. I've RARELY seen my girl like this. Damn this is dope! If there's even a slight attitude I go to digging mode and quickly find out why so I can put her ass back into HAPPY mode! Things are fucking great when it's like this.
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@Jack Yeah her "Go." Now turned into a "babe the light is green". I trained her. I got my balls back. I have a backbone. I am leading. I am not indecisive with her. Clown all you want but her attitude adjustment tells me I'm DEFINITELY doing something right. And don't you worry, the details of how I did so will come soon for everyone's benefit.
Maybe you should sit down and think. About why you're insecure, OR why your girl disrespects you. Can you find another girl? Or, does she disrespect you because you were nice, too controlling, or less controlling. Pick something. Because you are all over the place trying to find reasons for contradictions.