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Before you start throwing up pictures and signs, this is a serious question. Did your girlfriend start spotting flaws in your personality in around two months and it cause you to have to adjust your behavior towards her because you were at risk of losing her? Careful, because you've already answered this question in a previous post. IMO, the goal for a guy that's good with women is never to have to adjust his behavior to keep a woman around. When the magic wears off, they should want to still be around without you having to change the core behavior that you've shown her from day 1.
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You should always let women come to you with the relationship talk. No hints, no vague questions you interpret one way or another, no nothing. Let her be the one bringing exclusivity up.
As far as this goes, I tend to agree with Jack. In my opinion it's the first 3 months that are the make or break of a relationship.
Not sure if she spotted my flaws during the relationship. I did spot her flaws though. I believe i didn't adjust my behaviour on the brink of losing her. Instead, I froze her out for a week when she told me she was unsure about the relationship and needed the time to think. Which then a week later, she wanted to break up.
She used to say she misses me when we didn't meet on the weekend, but during the last three weeks of the relationship, we didn't meet on the weekend due to our personal matters. Yet when we had the time, she refused when i asked her out and out of nowhere she wanted to break up.