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@topic: How's it going op?
We haven't fucked once.
I'm glad I've gone through this experience because I've truly learnt that, even if they mean it in the moment, the promise that they want to remain friends/FWBs is probably going to end up being a lie.
We've drifted despite me trying to stay close, but the two times we met up afterwards, she had no problem making out with me, (I've been told I'm an excellent kisser by pretty much everyone), but I'm sure its just for the good kissing and the validation sake. Sex is a no go, (she doesn't even want to sleep in the same bed with me). I know I've made her cum and that I'm certainly the best head she's ever had as well as other things, but we won't fuck now.
The previous posts got me thinking about our sex life, it was good, but I had an injury which kinda prevented full on sex for about two weeks, and
what happened before my injury healed? She broke up with me. Surely, an injury she knew would eventually heal couldn't have been the reason, (at least the sole reason). I know we weren't perfect for each other and I wasn't hitting my potential, so why would she stay with me? (Her breaking up with me got me training hard, crushing it, I'm fitter than ever now and doing more with my life.)
So to sum up, despite me being able to get all the making out I want, she won't have sex. We've kinda drifted and I've stopped trying so hard to meet up with her/fuck her and moved on for the most part. I'm just going to continue having my fun for myself and if we end up hanging out again, who knows.
If something does happen with that girl in the future, I'll post it on here, but to me it seems exs fucking is a rare thing.