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PostPosted: Thu Sep 14, 2017 4:13 am 
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Ericksson wrote:
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I left vietnam before her . We said good bye by kissing in front of everyone but didn't plan to see each other when we come back home . One day after I left she texted me asking how was my flight etc... Then we started chatting a little bit but she took one week to answer one of my text . She said she was sorry but she got busy and tired when she got home.

Ok no worries I waited 4 days before texting her again and she replied immediately .

Once I got back home, I waited a week before asking her out for a drink . She replied yes but next week , I said yes I let you know then .

The next week I got sick on monday , couldn't get out but I don't let her know that I won't be able to meet her I don't know why .
I saw her on sunday at one of my friend's place and whenever I wanted to talk to her she was putting an end to the conversation like "I can't really talk I'm watching TV right now "

Well she is obviously pissed at me for not letting her know about out date .

How would you turn those situation around guys ?

It would be ok of I have to let her go since I'm seeing another girl at the moment but I prefer not to honestly

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You asked her out, said that you would let her know the details, then didn't.

She is probably a little confused.

I would call her, lightly apologize for not confirming the details (explain how you were sick) and state that you would like to reschedule.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 12:25 am 
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Ericksson wrote:
Hello everyone , this is my first post here because usually I just read and learn but now I really need advices from you guys . Here is the situation :

I'm 22 years old and I'm on a humanitarian trip with a group of 15 people I didn't really know before . The first day we got to know each other and I noticed this beautiful girl with an amazing body ( 8/10 ) , she was looking at me a lot . By the night , we were making out in a club . The next day I gave her some space , we don't see each other . The day after that when we talk she looks uncomfortable and ignore me a bit , I tried not to care . But on the night we made out again , in front of all of her friends .

Then during 2 weeks we had this rythm : we don't really talk during the day but we make out very hard on the night ( drunk or not ) . I have never experienced that before and i thought it was weird which I told her .

Then one night she told me that she has been seeing another guys for one month and a half , they are still texting but it's not very serious . She then told me that she felt uncomfortable cheating on this guy which explains her behavior during the day , knowing that all the group know the guy she was seeing .

One night , she told me that she doesn't want to kiss me anymore but we end up getting drunk and nearly have sex on the hood of a car .

When she told me that , I said ok do what you want , listen to your emotions , but I don't want to continue like that . Tomorrow we are gonna have a discussion about us .

What should I do ? I do like this girl , losing her wouldn't a big thing but I would like to keep seeing her when we come back home

Edit : I told her I don't give a fuck about this guy and wanted her to be honest with him

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Not very humanitarian-like of you. The irony made it all too tempting to deny.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 4:18 pm 
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We'll I called her 4 days ago and she didn't return my call


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 5:36 pm 
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Ericksson wrote:
We'll I called her 4 days ago and she didn't return my call

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the girl I have been seeing has a boyfriend


What part of "has a boyfriend" are you failing to grasp??


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 7:19 pm 
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Ericksson wrote:
We'll I called her 4 days ago and she didn't return my call


Ok, look at it like this.

She cheated on her boyfriend with you.

She is now with him and probably feels guilty. Even if you got with her and she left him, eventually she would do the same to you. If she keeps seeing you, eventually she will be caught out and if he is a big fella, you may receive a visit.

It was a bit of fun, but for your own sanity and health, move on to other women and stop contacting her. Infact just delete her number.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 8:38 pm 
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Messing with a guy or girl in a relationship is just dirty


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 17, 2017 1:36 am 
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damn, and after I gave you props...you start losing your edge...


leave the girl alone. My drama radar is tingling.

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 17, 2017 1:46 am 
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So you had sex, and then she went cold. If it wasn't better than sex with her boyfriend, you'll get nexted.

See other women.

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Arch Stanton wrote:
So you had sex, and then she went cold. If it wasn't better than sex with her boyfriend, you'll get nexted.

See other women.

Over simplification, distortion, mistruth, uninformed statement.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 17, 2017 10:09 am 
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n2thevoid wrote:
Messing with a guy or girl in a relationship is just dirty


Agreed.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 22, 2017 10:48 am 
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n2thevoid wrote:
Messing with a guy or girl in a relationship is just dirty


Honestly all is fair in love and war. If you don't know her boyfriend then you owe him nothing. If a girl or guy is going to cheat then they will cheat.


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