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Like I said, disregard the title. Some say the best time to take up self development is freshly after a breakup because you can use that negative energy to fuel your motivation.
Yet either way, breakup or no, the advice given there is how you start self improvement.
Cool, i will tap into this. Thanks for the advice! I'll keep you guys posted or something.
@Dicemaster,
You're making it sound way more extreme than it is. She's not texting me as much as i'd like. But she's not ignoring me at all. She Does actually care about me.
I just have to find out wether it's enough to be in a relationship. But you're making it sound like she doesn't give a fuck about me, which is not the case. That's not what i need to hear and you're not making me feel better. Aparently i haven't explained my situation well enough, or maybe a language barrier (english is not my first language) has something to do with it. My situation is not ideal, at all, cause i cant just grab hold of her. I know that. But stop saying i'm saying i wouldn't be happy without her.. :/ if i wouldn't have been with her i would be fine
stop saying that i'm/it is worse then it is..
You damn well know the answer to that question, that you're even asking it is telling enough. I have a sneaking suspicion you're waiting for some sign, god knows what, to give you a definitive answer to move on and when you get more evidence of how she's not meeting most of your connection needs you'll backwards rationalize it away and continue status quo. That's my fear, for you.
If I had a crystal ball and told you you'd find the 'perfect' girl for you, one that'll meet your needs for intimacy, affection, mutuality, and integrity I m quite certain you'd ditch this one like a lump of coal. From the outside looking in, this looks more to do with your fear of being alone rather than staying with her for her 'amazing' qualities. Ego attachment more than anything else.