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First, I'm gonna take a hard stance on this side issue because it's really sad to hear guys who do what you do. Move out of your parents house. I'm sorry, but if you have money to get a hotel for a trip and have time to maintain a relationship, you can get a job and move out. First part of being a man isn't having a gf, its being responsible for yourself and accountable for surviving. Maybe if more guys moved out, we'd have less needy threads here because when you're living at home and dating girls comfortably, it just means youre prioritizing your time and resources for a woman, as opposed to being on your own. End of side rant
That being said and thats not related to your current problem...I think you should end it. Frankly, your gf doesnt sound like someone emotionally mature enough for a relationship. Lack of friends, jealous of your MOTHER, dropping out of school, getting mad at stupid stuff, breaking up to come back etc.....she's just not a girl you should be with. I dont know if its due to her age, or mental issues, depression, or if she's cheating or not. But whatever it is, I like to think about what will the future look like if you got back with her? If you pull back for a while and she comes running back...GREAT! But what next? She continues to get mad at you? She breaks up with you again and begs you back again? The only way I could see this relationship working, is if she was able to change her negative actions in a major way. And that requires a level of maturity she may not have. Everything you wrote, I thought you guys were 15/16. And even then it looked immature.
Don't get me wrong...You CAN get this girl back. You can play it silent and she'll come begging back for you. But ask yourself...then what?
I actually moved back in with my dad since he's alone and he has a serious medical condition which needs someone to check up on him on a daily basis. If that means I'm less than a man for some people that's fine by me.
I agree with everything else you say though and I should probably end it and move on.