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Have you read this forum? Half the posts are about guys who have "played it cool in the friend zone" for years.
Lol, the forum is not a representation of the average guy out there. That's why it gets this topic so skewed; because the guys who wait years for a chick come here and assume the rest of the world was as desperate as they were. The average guy, ie the guy who has a decent social life, has had gfs, dates on occasion, is not spending years pretending to be a girl's friend to get her or to fuck her. Sure, if your gf has a male friend who is "below average" ie, never had a gf, no chicks like him, poor social life...well yeah that desperation will probably lead him to go through years to get your gf. But if she has a friend who is normal, yes, he prob would fuck her if she spread her legs, but he's most likely not pretending to be her friend for the hope of sex. What you're describing is a subset of desperate men. The guys with the posts you describe, are not the average guy, hence why they come here.
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If you're attracted to someone, you'll fuck them if you can.
Yeah, sure, but what does that mean? If you offered me money I'd take it. If I walked into McDonalds for a burger and they gave me a car as a prize I'd take it. Doesnt mean anything. Doesnt mean I was going Mc Donalds to get a car...I went for a burger. So yeah, a guy friend would prob fuck a chick if she asked him to. Doesnt mean that was his motivation was to fuck her.