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PostPosted: Thu Jun 29, 2017 4:04 pm 
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I think there's a big difference between someone in the friendship who "would fuck" if given a chance and saying that male female friendships one party "badly" wants to fuck the other. For eg.. You may love your job for the work that you do and all that... But if offered a raise of 100k a year.. Youd take the raise. But that doesn't mean that the money is your motivation. There's a distinction between would fuck and this "most dudes are just hanging out hoping to fuck." Like Ops case... It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.


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neo87 wrote:
It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.



Disagree..it''s very common.

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neo87 wrote:
I think there's a big difference between someone in the friendship who "would fuck" if given a chance and saying that male female friendships one party "badly" wants to fuck the other. For eg.. You may love your job for the work that you do and all that... But if offered a raise of 100k a year.. Youd take the raise. But that doesn't mean that the money is your motivation. There's a distinction between would fuck and this "most dudes are just hanging out hoping to fuck." Like Ops case... It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.


Agreed. I have plenty of female that I find attractive but have no desire to fuck, especially if they are in a relationship

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Arch Stanton wrote:
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It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.



Disagree..it''s very common.


It's not very common Arch. Most guys can't talk to women, true, but not most make such obsessions.

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neo87 wrote:
I think there's a big difference between someone in the friendship who "would fuck" if given a chance and saying that male female friendships one party "badly" wants to fuck the other. For eg.. You may love your job for the work that you do and all that... But if offered a raise of 100k a year.. Youd take the raise. But that doesn't mean that the money is your motivation. There's a distinction between would fuck and this "most dudes are just hanging out hoping to fuck." Like Ops case... It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.

It comes down to intent, I think it what you're capturing.

If the person's intent is to bed their 'friend', vs. they're friends but if the opportunity presented itself they'd capitalize on it. The former having an ulterior motive, the later being amenable to friendship but not holding out in the possibility of more.

With that I agree, not every guy is TRYING to f*ck your partner.


Pingers or obritors generally don't put so much effort it - rather than come and go to see if there's an opening (eg.the girl is single, or in the midst of some turmoin in her relationship) so-to-speak.


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R.C wrote:
Arch Stanton wrote:
neo87 wrote:
It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.



Disagree..it''s very common.


It's not very common Arch. Most guys can't talk to women, true, but not most make such obsessions.



Have you read this forum? Half the posts are about guys who have "played it cool in the friend zone" for years.

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I think there's a big difference between someone in the friendship who "would fuck" if given a chance and saying that male female friendships one party "badly" wants to fuck the other. For eg.. You may love your job for the work that you do and all that... But if offered a raise of 100k a year.. Youd take the raise. But that doesn't mean that the money is your motivation. There's a distinction between would fuck and this "most dudes are just hanging out hoping to fuck." Like Ops case... It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.


Agreed. I have plenty of female that I find attractive but have no desire to fuck, especially if they are in a relationship



I have fucked all of my female friends I find attractive, boyfriend or not.

If you're attracted to someone, you'll fuck them if you can.

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Arch Stanton wrote:
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neo87 wrote:
I think there's a big difference between someone in the friendship who "would fuck" if given a chance and saying that male female friendships one party "badly" wants to fuck the other. For eg.. You may love your job for the work that you do and all that... But if offered a raise of 100k a year.. Youd take the raise. But that doesn't mean that the money is your motivation. There's a distinction between would fuck and this "most dudes are just hanging out hoping to fuck." Like Ops case... It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.


Agreed. I have plenty of female that I find attractive but have no desire to fuck, especially if they are in a relationship



I have fucked all of my female friends I find attractive, boyfriend or not.

If you're attracted to someone, you'll fuck them if you can.


Not me. Probably because I'm older than most, but in most cases and from previous experience, it just isn't worth the hassle, usually kills off the friendship too. Makes things pretty shitty if it's within a group of friends too

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 29, 2017 11:37 pm 
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Have you read this forum? Half the posts are about guys who have "played it cool in the friend zone" for years.


Lol, the forum is not a representation of the average guy out there. That's why it gets this topic so skewed; because the guys who wait years for a chick come here and assume the rest of the world was as desperate as they were. The average guy, ie the guy who has a decent social life, has had gfs, dates on occasion, is not spending years pretending to be a girl's friend to get her or to fuck her. Sure, if your gf has a male friend who is "below average" ie, never had a gf, no chicks like him, poor social life...well yeah that desperation will probably lead him to go through years to get your gf. But if she has a friend who is normal, yes, he prob would fuck her if she spread her legs, but he's most likely not pretending to be her friend for the hope of sex. What you're describing is a subset of desperate men. The guys with the posts you describe, are not the average guy, hence why they come here.

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If you're attracted to someone, you'll fuck them if you can.


Yeah, sure, but what does that mean? If you offered me money I'd take it. If I walked into McDonalds for a burger and they gave me a car as a prize I'd take it. Doesnt mean anything. Doesnt mean I was going Mc Donalds to get a car...I went for a burger. So yeah, a guy friend would prob fuck a chick if she asked him to. Doesnt mean that was his motivation was to fuck her.


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Arch Stanton wrote:
Slick_uk wrote:
neo87 wrote:
I think there's a big difference between someone in the friendship who "would fuck" if given a chance and saying that male female friendships one party "badly" wants to fuck the other. For eg.. You may love your job for the work that you do and all that... But if offered a raise of 100k a year.. Youd take the raise. But that doesn't mean that the money is your motivation. There's a distinction between would fuck and this "most dudes are just hanging out hoping to fuck." Like Ops case... It's highly unlikely that this guy is working for 6 years to fuck this one chick. That's alot of effort and time and most guys don't care that much if they have a decent enough social life.


Agreed. I have plenty of female that I find attractive but have no desire to fuck, especially if they are in a relationship



I have fucked all of my female friends I find attractive, boyfriend or not.

If you're attracted to someone, you'll fuck them if you can.


Not true at all. True however if you have low standards.


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Arch Stanton wrote:
Have you read this forum? Half the posts are about guys who have "played it cool in the friend zone" for years.


Right, but the forum is where they flock.

If you watch the news you'll see nothing but killings and accidents. That doesn't mean they happen every minute. It's simply what you're constantly exposed to.

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