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PostPosted: Fri Jul 07, 2017 5:54 pm 
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Heywood Jablowme wrote:
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Of course it happens, but it isn't necessarily healthy and never really lasts,


Not to get you all butt hurt again OP. But this is just crap. Conjecture in raw form. Even a blind hog can find an acorn once in a while.


I'm not the OP... Or butthurt. I disagreed with the advice given to The OP :lol: Christ...!

It's still just conjecture...

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 07, 2017 6:28 pm 
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Heywood Jablowme wrote:
It's still just conjecture...


Pretty much everything when it comes to relationship posts on here is conjecture, so yeah you're right on that.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 07, 2017 6:58 pm 
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Slick_uk wrote:
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It's still just conjecture...


Pretty much everything when it comes to relationship posts on here is conjecture, so yeah you're right on that.


Ok Slash... I'm gonna sue you for plagerisms anyway, swear to god.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 07, 2017 7:37 pm 
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No I completely understand that. My point is, for a woman, Netflix and Chilling doesn't equate dating or getting to know them, doing fun shit, romance



You can't have a great conversation in your home? You can't get to know someone's body, to have an incredibly fun time naked? Sex isn't fun? Lying in bed, teasing and playing isn't fun?

Sex is the adult, organic way that adults get to know each other. Post-sex talks are also usually more sincere and open (IE not interviews), as well, which accelerates the acclimation process.

I would argue the fastest way to get to know each other is in bed, physically, and conversationally.




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But I'm 32, my girlfriend and the women I tend to go for are in their late 20s. I'm not a pickup artist, my days of gaming to up my body count are past me. I'm interested in this shit to present the best version of myself possible and find a high quality woman to be in a relationship with.


Who isn't? That's the apex goal for everyone.

But if you start your first date with this outlook, it's needy. And any socially valuable woman will pick up on this vibe. Obese, large, and women who don't take care of themselves won't care so much.

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Anyone else feel like they're watching an obese person give fitness tips when they read Arch's advice?


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 11:03 am 
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Well here's an update. Almost feel like not posting anything as this will just likely be criticized and torn apart by the worldwide expert in dating and man that all men aspire to be like Arch but here goes. I haven't hung out with her since that night and even though we've been texting she backed out on plans Sunday and also Monday texting me back that she fell asleep. So I pretty much accept fate and move on. But last night I get her texting me asking if I'm mad at her. I reply, no but there is something I need to talk to you about and I call her out on the texting. That I'm not going to tell you who you can or can't text just like I don't expect to do it to me but that was disrespectful to text a guy sexual stuff in my presence. Now her reply was just crazy. Because she's like omg that's just my friend and we've been talking like that for years but there's nothing physical between us. Then she apologizes that it was wrong to do around me. Gets deep into how she was physically and sexually abused by her ex husband and that now the attention from guys feels good. She starts jumping all over the place saying that she's scared of settling because of her past but also gets into how she really likes me, how well I treat her and how she's just a 29 year old waitress that lives with her parents and how I could do much better. We go on about several things but I flat out tell her, you make me happy when I'm with you but if we continue there needs to be honesty about things. She seems all into continuing to see me but I'm not sure I should buy that reason and also what other issues does she have that I haven't seen yet.


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Well here's an update. Almost feel like not posting anything as this will just likely be criticized and torn apart by the worldwide expert in dating and man that all men aspire to be like Arch but here goes. I haven't hung out with her since that night and even though we've been texting she backed out on plans Sunday and also Monday texting me back that she fell asleep. So I pretty much accept fate and move on. But last night I get her texting me asking if I'm mad at her. I reply, no but there is something I need to talk to you about and I call her out on the texting. That I'm not going to tell you who you can or can't text just like I don't expect to do it to me but that was disrespectful to text a guy sexual stuff in my presence. Now her reply was just crazy. Because she's like omg that's just my friend and we've been talking like that for years but there's nothing physical between us. Then she apologizes that it was wrong to do around me. Gets deep into how she was physically and sexually abused by her ex husband and that now the attention from guys feels good. She starts jumping all over the place saying that she's scared of settling because of her past but also gets into how she really likes me, how well I treat her and how she's just a 29 year old waitress that lives with her parents and how I could do much better. We go on about several things but I flat out tell her, you make me happy when I'm with you but if we continue there needs to be honesty about things. She seems all into continuing to see me but I'm not sure I should buy that reason and also what other issues does she have that I haven't seen yet.


I see red flags all over the place IMO. Texting that way with a friend is not normal if there is nothing sexual going on. If they're not fucking or planning to fuck, one or even both of them want to. She seems damaged and it isn't your job to fix her. If you want just a FWB arrangement with her then fine but if she is someone you're looking for a relationship with I would run a mile. How you play this is all down to what you want to happen with this one.

The reasons she has stated why she likes you is because you're a nice guy and treat her well. IMO she's only going to take advantage of this down the line. Dating a woman with such low self esteem and who is unfulfilled, won't work because she'll always look for something / someone else to fill that gap. She's already said she likes the attention.

I've seen this happen so many times before. But then I don't think the same way to the others here, so take my opinion how you want to.

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Her relationship with the guy she was texting doesn't really matter to be honest. She's right. You could probably do.

People will make excuses, but if you've lived 29 years on this planet and have amounted to waiting tables while living off your parents, then you're not exactly winning at life.

Also abusive past.. meh. It's a recipe for mediocrity.

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Why would you waste your time with someone like that unless you either have very low self-esteem or are simply looking for a lay.

Texting incessantly when she's with me and its not business related or a friend in crisis a flag.

Sexting guys is as red a flag as they come.

Show yourself some respect and dignity, stop dating attention/validation whores particularly ones who may be putting you at risk health wise.


A million fish in the sea and you have to have this one, eh.


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It's done. Finished. Then today I was working my shitty job as a mailman and I saw this cute girl from a distance wearing a dress and heels walking up the sidewalk. I'm just thinking, I'm gonna hop into my truck and drive down there and make a move..as I'm coming down the street, I see she's coming out of the daycare walking with 3 kids...effffff..story of my life!


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