I dated a girl 2 months back in august and september.
She ditched me after a little drama after i flirted with her bestfriend on a weekend trip. She told me that she feelt humiliated, and also that she wasn't looking for anything serious and the she can tell that i was, and she didn't want to hurt me.
I tried to "win" her back telling her that we could take it casually if she wanted, because that would have also been fine with me. So contacted her 3 times after the "dumped" me the following weeks after late september.
She wold me that she needed space, but sure we could hang out like friend but she didn't want to promise me anything.
Anyway, she never followed up on that and i didn't want to look needy. We snapped casually with random snaps that you send to everyone.
I late november i asked her again with " Hi, long time ago. Want to grab a drink next time?" She didn't respond, and after that the random snaps stopped, and i didn't snap her or contact her again.
I did however snap her Happy New Year ( That i sent to everyone), no respond on that either.
This girl gave me bad onetis, i just couldn't forget about her.
But finally, when i'm done with her and dating this wonderfull girl she contacts me again...
When we dated she broke her iphone screen, and it takes me 5 min to fix that, so i told her that just pay me for the parts and i will fix it for you.
Anyway, the screen arrived after she dumped me. I told her that it arrived back in september, and that i could fix it someday. But she never followed up on that.
The message she wrote me yesterday was her trying to be very "sweet", 7 am in the morning...??
Like" Hiiii, yoou
Ehm hehe do you still have the iphone screen you got for me? Clumsy me managed to break it again :$ :$
I responed with: Hi, yea i still have it
Her: Ooh nice! Could i come over someday and pick it up? And can you tell me have to put on the screen? ( She know very well that she would never ever manage to do that herself, and i guess/ know she wanted me to tell her that i could do it..)
Me: Yea, you can come over. Haha, you would never manage to do that by yourself, sure i can fix it for you.
Her: That would be nice!!!
Me: You can come over next week on monday or tueday and we can fix it. How have you been?
Her: Nice, thanks
I've been good, just alot of work lately. How about you?
Me: Same her, worked to 10pm tonight ( I didn't)
So ready for the bed now. Night!
Her: Good job, keep it up. We talk next week
- Bad that i didn't wrote We talk next week after " Night" on my message, because she ended the convo with more power with ending it.
What do you think she wants? I really don't think she only comes over for me to fix her screen after not seeing me for 4 months... That would be extremely rude.
She is a wealthy women, and a i really don't think thats the reason.. If that was the reason she would had come over last time i asked back in september.
My guess is that she had a break up with a flirt and felt lonely, and wanted to see if i responded her. She is 24, i'm 26.
I don't want the date her again because the way she treated me, and because i have met a new girl that i like really much. But it would be nice to have her in my life like a friend, because she is really hot and have cool friends with high social proof.