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PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2017 7:28 pm 
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I guess theres been a few of these threads in the past, but I'll try my luck anyways.

27yr male here.

I'm in a nice relationship. It's good. We get along. But I cant stop thinking about being single, meeting other women. It's eating me up. My relationship of 3 years is beginning to get stuckin a rut. Nothing new is introduced and the sex has worn off.

I respect my girlfriend, she's my closest friend and fanily member. But it's been fun and I guess I want to move on. But she loves me and I'd fucking hate to break her heart like a lightning out of a blue sky.

So what are your best tips for breaking up a LTR? I'm open to sincerity, truthfulness to manipualation, dirty tricks, whatever. I just want a clean path out and I want to know the easiest, best way.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2017 9:39 pm 
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Garruk wrote:
It's good. We get along. But I cant stop thinking about being single, meeting other women. It's eating me up. My relationship of 3 years is beginning to get stuckin a rut. Nothing new is introduced and the sex has worn off.


This entire time, you should've been pushing boundaries with your girl.

Do you watch porn together? Talk about fantasies? Use sex toys? Have you had threesomes or group sex?

If not, why not?

Be a MAN. If you want to fuck other girls, tell your gf you want to see her fuck another girl, and then you want to. This kind of honesty and communication keeps a relationship hot. And if your gf loves you and is into it, not only can you have other women, but you can still enjoy her company, too.

It's not hard to set these kinds of relationships up. but you do it organically, from the beginning.

If the sex is boring, it's because you are boring, and you're not opening a woman's mind. Women are mirrors. You lead, you go for what you want, and you do it with passion.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2017 10:31 pm 
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Oh yes, the 3 year mark where many relationships end, exactly like you describe, fun is out, you know each other inside and out and naturally the sex becomes worse and worse...

I was in your shoes once, ended it after 4 years but after 3 i was mentally done as well, could't break it up for another year because of guilt feelings and "breaking her heart, out of the blue" kinda thoughts.

She is with a friend of mine now (don't see them both anymore but i found my peace with it).

Look she will be ok and find another guy who she will get married to and forget about you.

What i learned from this is you will feel like shit and get depressed the longer you keep the relationship going, its not fair to you but especially to her. Break it up AFTER trying your best to get the feelings back but after 3 years its hard, we all know this.

Now do learn from the experience and write down what went wrong and what you need/want in a future relationship.

Good luck and i feel ya.

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She'll be fine OP, eventually.

There's no way to break up with someone without hurting them. That's just how it is. Be honest, tell her the truth and the reasons behind it.

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