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Flow84
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 Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 9:39 pm Post subject: Pub Opener |
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Ok im new to this PUA thing ive had plenty sucess in the past but things have dried up recently so started getting into this game to destroy my approach anxiety. I came up with a plan last night to combine something i enjoy doing with pick up, which is playing pool. Me and a mate invite a two set to a game of doubles. If we're rejected that gives a good opportunity for a neg "come on don't be boring" and were into the set anyway. If they say yes you can say its only for one game then you have to go (time constraint, however theres always a re-match if things go well).
The game gives me at least ten minutes with the girls as i can control a game to draw it out. straight away you have the comfort that you dont have to constantly perform and hold conversation as theres a game of pool going on however this can also be the basis of some playful negging.
I think this may work but once set up id like some advice on how to get the convo to a number close or if this is just a lame idea in the first place??
advice please gents |
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RooksMgook
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good idea.
everything u said was right on ...except when u said to build comfort during the game.. u need to build attraction first..then comfort..and maybe dont play the rematch. promise them a rematch some other time and leave.. or get them to come with you to ur next destination. |
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