What's up again forum-ites? Quick field report and infield video.
Last night [the 8th.], as part of my usual-weekend ritual of going out, I rented a car and made my way to a concert/exhibition/sports event/...whatever it was!
I got there shortly after 9 PM, couldn't find parking space neither the entrance so I stayed outside for a while chatting up 6 girls total before I went into the grounds.
One thing I'd like to note up front: I intentionally did not activate my wireless microphone or any other audio-recording device in my possession.
Why so?
Guys tend to get hung up on "WORDS" and verbal game opposed to zoning in on the more important components to seduction: NON-VERBALS.
It isn't what your lips say but what your body and actions say.
In this infield video, I hardly spoke to the women I was interacting with.
I let my body, body language, physicality and touch do 95% of the talking.
Therefore, the reason I did not record the verbal interactions was to get you to pay attention to non-verbal instead of verbal.
Also, I'll share with you the most important word of advice you'll ever get when it comes to such venues (loud ones).
In loud venues where verbal interactions have their limitations, you'll be allowed to touch and get physical more than usual.
I used to make the mistake of screaming my larynx out trying to chat up girls in loud venues instead of not talking much but touching more.
Little did I know in those years, women in loud venues were subconsciously complaint and understanding to the need to communicate physically since the music is too overpowering.
Therefore, physical communication should be your primary mode of communication (in loud venues).
The girl will understand the logics in why you're being physical opposed to yelling.
Other stats:
Interacted with 30 women during that night, screening for the girl who was DTF...that night.
Got rejected once (on video) after telling a girl I wanted to kiss her. In the video, I also demonstrated how to handle a rejection like a boss, and how to not let 1 girl, 1 rejection mess your night up.
As expected: I did NOT get any phone #'s!
The girl whom I took home attempted to offer me her phone # but I turned it down by saying: "I don't wanna take your #, I wanna take you".
Had I taken her phone # and left, what would've happened?
Nothing!
Why go the date route, waste time engaging in phone and text game, flakes and so forth when you can take girls home the same day or night?
Phone #'s are useless when trying to hook up.
Anyway, check out the video and ensure that you read the sub-texts and annotations to learn the process and what's taking place in the social dynamics.
Original post on the PUA blog:
http://kennyspuathoughts.com/2014/02/09 ... eld-video/
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