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 Post subject: Women Love Assholes?
PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 3:56 am 
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I'm going to lay it out, unlike 90% of women out there that deny it.

Women love assholes.

BUT! And I say but because this but is really important if you are or plan on becoming an asshole.

It's the 'concentration', so to speak, of asshole that matters here.

If you come across as >80% asshole, it's probably not going to workout with women. Okay, maybe one night stands, easy lays, mentally messed up girls.

But for normal women, you're probably not going to hook her in long-term relationship speaking.

See, you have to show your nice, gentle, caring side first before you squeeze in the asshole. I'm not saying be a door mat. Be confident, but confidently nice. Then, when you've got that connection, you can introduce the asshole.

I'm not saying treat her like shit (though some women, and men!, lap that up), but you can sprinkle it here and there.

I've noticed this too with men. If I'm sweet girl 100%, he loses interest, or mistreats me, or blows me off, etc. But if I'm a little bitchy, a little demanding, a little aggressive, his interest spikes up. He wants me more. He does more. He tries harder to please.


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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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I think the most important thing is that both the man and woman respect each other and their boundaries. As long as she understands that what I say won't be filtered, like how I think every sappy movie where the man gets a girl after going through a whole ordeal is nonsense. Or how I think sex and the city the movie is pretty much a whole movie about entitled princesses who are whining.


and don't get me started on twilight...

and why do men have to start out nice, caring and gentle. That's what I would tell someone who was petting my cat or who was carrying my t.v.

I am probably doing myself a disservice if I am not sexually expressive in the beginning. That's the quickest way to the friendzone.

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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Just sounds to me like you've described a well balanced person. Overall kind, but with some attitude (for contrast) and not a pushover.

Kindness was a trait that women found positive in an attraction research study, thought I forget the definition of "kindness" that they used.

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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Autoregressive wrote:
Just sounds to me like you've described a well balanced person. Overall kind, but with some attitude (for contrast) and not a pushover.

Kindness was a trait that women found positive in an attraction research study, thought I forget the definition of "kindness" that they used.



I would wait until she describes what nice, caring, and gentle means to her first...

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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You don't love assholes. You love guys that won't kiss your ass.

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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Uh, this is the problem of the proverbial nice guy.

He's too nice. He let's women step all over him.

He doesn't show any alpha traits when dating.

Secondly, you'd be surprised what some women love. There are a number of alpha females out there that enjoy dominating men. They specifically choose partners like that. Some women love to have all the power in the relationship, just as a lot of men do.


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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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HT23VWY67 wrote:
Uh, this is the problem of the proverbial nice guy.

He's too nice. He let's women step all over him.

He doesn't show any alpha traits when dating.

Secondly, you'd be surprised what some women love. There are a number of alpha females out there that enjoy dominating men. They specifically choose partners like that. Some women love to have all the power in the relationship, just as a lot of men do.



LMAO. Stick to the subject. We aren't talking about manginas here. Explain what nice, caring, and gentle means to you.

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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We’re not Assholes because we’re terrible people; we’re Assholes because it’s fucking awesome.

Everyone fucking knows guys like me don’t take girls out on dates, or show up to their door with flowers or god forbid “spend time” with them when we‘re sober. We bang those girls then never fucking talk to them again. But somehow, even though we aren’t the sweet guy of their dreams, they still fucking text us at like 3 am looking for another late night hookup! Weird.

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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Semantics.

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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Nah.

You like confidence, a little aggression, and some testicular fortitude. This is why women aren't a good idea on pickup forums, they don't know what they want lol.

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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DJ_Z wrote:
This is why women aren't a good idea on pickup forum.


I don't follow, I think you're kidding around though.

Misogyny is something we don't tolerate on this forum.

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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Okay, never mind, I quit.

Always got some lame jokes up your sleeves....


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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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HT23VWY67 wrote:
Okay, never mind, I quit.

Always got some lame jokes up your sleeves....



You love us though :wink: . Nice to have you on the forums though

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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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Mr. Assertive wrote:
HT23VWY67 wrote:
Okay, never mind, I quit.

Always got some lame jokes up your sleeves....



You love us though :wink: . Nice to have you on the forums though


Maybe. My male friends have almost always outnumbered my female friends.


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 Post subject: Re: Women Love Assholes?
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They all want to bang you. Unless you're really ugly. No offense, but that's how I friend zone women. Fat chicks are automatically friend zoned for me.

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