College and uni is a very interesting type of pick up game. for me i tried not to be in with the in crowd but made sure i had value and every body wanted to talk to me. i had only been learning this towards the end of my study but it changed my life completly. wish i would have started it early on and things could have been so different. prehaps i would not have the qualifications i have now

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So there we have it!

you're over generalizing. there are plenty that are genuinely smart and fun to have deep conversation with, you just need to look in the right places. probably less likely to find this type of girl at a frat party with kegs, more so at the study hall or library.

also, this is a comfirmation bias. what you believe is true will become true because you will backwards rationalize it.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias

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Just take a look at what things some person called say something bad about. Bald, fat, or anything else and thing of something to say when they use it against you. its good to be prepared.

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So there we have it!

"University chicks" is too generic to be meaningful. But if it's any encouragement I've been "at" colleges and universities (as student, grad student or prof) for 15 years and never seen any particular resistance from college girls to even mediocre game. (The biggest problem you are likely to run into is girls too drunk to really follow any game and end up passing out or throwing up on your shoes.)

As a general rule, the super smart, arty girls are easier to game with more direct style, whereas more indirection with the sorority girls--kind of counter-intuitive, but the former are usually aching for a little more testosterone, whereas the latter are hungry for someone a little more sensitive than a fencepost.

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Sly, I just recently got back into the game after 6 years. During these years I've almost become domesticated, burning bridges with females along the way. I've come to learn that I have almost 0 game, upon joining the single life. I see that you like to take an eclectic approach to PUA, using all diff methods in your own way. Any reads that you found exceptionally crucial? I'm hurting bad man, I've got to shake this off. Or I fear I will continue to self sabotage mysElf. Any advice? Anybody?

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Great tips, thanks!

Just wanna say you're sticky got me to register to this forum, and as many others I want to thank you. Small question: i really love the "don't you hate it when random people talk to you? " opener and the follow up, but I find difficulty continuing the conversation afterwards. It could be something situational, but it's off-topic to most things. Any advice?
Thanks, BK

Practice your conversational skills. There is a lot of information to be found about conversation stuff on this forum.

I do not want this to sound like a brag post but I feel it directly applies to what sly is saying here.

I have been with a number of girls and just recently sort of took a poll. The last few girls I had been with told me I was the best lay they have ever had. I am still good friends with the girl I lost my virginity too and asked her where i ranked on her sex list. She told me about 7 out of 10. Then it hit me. How did I go from being 7 out of 10 to the best some of these women have had.

The conclusion I came to really applies to PUA directly. I decided one day I wanted to be the best sex any girl had ever had. So i started googling things like how to pleasure a woman, sex positions and things of that nature. I started reading all these things and started to incorporate things I felt had some value behind them. Then instead of just having a sex like a rabid beast I really started paying attention to how the women reacted to certain things I did. This is where I picked up on what to do and what not to do.

As far as being confident goes sly couldn't be more right. The most common response I have gotten out of the females that said I am the best they ever had is "You are demanding" This is not only because I know what I want but I also can tell what they want.

Just thought I would add to slys post. Any questions please feel free to ask. This is why we are here.

Great posts Slywalkers. I have something to ask you.
I recently get interested in a chick in my Uni class, thing is even better when we are in the same group. The truth is despite i have much interest in her, i didnt show any of it in my class, and she probably doesnt know it as well. One night, i started sending her emails.
First email: My whole intention is that i could get closer to her in the day time, by starting introduce myself, ticking, kicking random things a little bit then go for the main reason. After that, she replied: I just dont know what to do, she probably gave me shit test, but im not so sure soi replied her with an email: I was trying to do some C&F stuff, however i still feel like i was really DLV myself since that email. However, im trying to be a little nice here, but she didnt reply. So i push myself a little bit and send an email:
and it actually gain a reply from her: After the whole email things, i got really pissed off and start swinging without even thinking: She replied: I was literally furious and as trying to calm down i sent her: I dont know what i was sending have any effect, but I want everyone to have a little bit of seeing it and if possible telling me what did i do wrong and there are any way to recover the whole situation.

What does AFC and RAFC stand for?

and btw great stuff thanks alot !!

Average Frustrated Chump and Recovering AFC (used as an in-between from AFC to PUA).

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Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"

good stuff

mate im 17 and still in college and this stuff works of course its going to work on uni HBs like you said its fucking golden!!