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I mean look if you want a basic breakdown I can do it for you. However, if you actually read my entire original post you'd see that I admit that a direct approach has led to me fucking a woman before. I mention that it's a great way to get a lot of experience in field, I say how it is safe, but also mention that it has drawbacks. The system has weaknesses. I also don't mention daygame vs night at all, so I do find it a little weird that NaturalDec specifically is asking me about daygame. In my experience, the only difference is my level of energy and how I sexually project. In daygame it's more about slowing down my speech a bit and projecting via eye contact, whereas in a bar it's less risky to get close to a girl and touch her as appropriate for the interaction.
The basis for how I practice pickup now is Gun's Seduction MMA, basically. Out of respect for Gun I specifically avoid SPAM stuff for free that he sells to try to make a living. I realize a lot of people here aren't fans, but it's been working for me this past year or so, after nearly a year of practicing it just to get good.
Well you said that you've tried a 'direct approach' in the daytime before. So I was just wondering whether you'd actually ever gotten laid from doing it.
In your post you make the statement that we should also step outside the box from this sort of approach. So I was wondering if you had actually got laid from some other sort of approach in this sort of scenario, that actually worked better for yourself, where you weren't direct with the girl.
On the last sentence, sparknotes version is it would go like this:
I see a woman that I think is hot, I walk towards her and pretend to be engaged with my phone. Slow down when I'm nearby and in her field of vision, then turn to her and say something like "oh hi" as if I was completely zoned out and then just noticed her. Yeah doesn't work if she's walking by so I have to stop her by saying "hey" loudly enough to get her attention. 90% of the time I follow that up with saying "whoa, you look exactly like my ex, only you have a different vibe in your eyes." Sometimes I say ex, sometimes I just say a girl I know. The point of this is that I'm building some curiosity about myself. That is straight canned from Gunwitch, and yeah you have to learn to deliver without sounding like you are reading off an index card but I am telling you it works.
Best pull off that was actually at a bar and after finishing the opener the girl paused for a sec and then said "was she pretty?" and fuckin game show buzzers went off cuz we had a winner, that was actually blown out that night because her friend was a drunken mess and I had to finish the job like two days later which is tougher than banging that night. But the basic principle, as opposed to the statement of intent, is starting the build that bubble by creating the impression that you just happened to notice her first as a random person, then you saw something about her that got your attention. Then I fire off a cold read when the girl invariably asks what I mean by her having a different vibe in her eyes. I have a few ones I use depending on the situation, thankfully the entire point of cold reading is that its a form of con so you just have to practice so that your delivery flows well.