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PostPosted: Sat Dec 26, 2015 4:10 pm 
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-Now there's alot of stuff, concepts,theories,tactics,and techniques. In every pickup though regardless of the situation or context of what's happening you're going to use these to help you move forward in interactions reguardless of which style , method, or location you're going to. Some of these you might know and some you might not. All of these are really important and are advanced , you're going to definitely know some other skills and master those before you can learn the more advanced that's why they're called big picture skills, but even if you're just starting out you're going to have to know them and eventually account for them anyway.

Not in any particular order , I'm going to post more to this so don't worry if any of this comes off very vague and broad since it is.

-Micro calibration/Handling Contingencies
-Frame Control
-Qualification
-Logistics(A form of escalation but separated off in its own category)
-Escalation (Verbal /Physical)
+Steering/Leading (the interaction)
+Pacing the interaction (And I'm not referring to the NLP term , what I mean is that you're pacing yourself in what you're saying and doing and what she's saying and doing . Pretty much keeping track of what's happening )


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 27, 2015 9:57 pm 
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Micro calibration - calibration is basically tailoring your responses based off of the girls responses to you from body language, vocal tonality, the words or content she's saying.
My draughting down thoughts/notes:
-Her responses when you try to qualify her, move her,touch her, or use proximity to measure whether how attracted and comfortable with you getting close to her and closing the space between you both.
Acronyms:
- IoI , IAI , IsI , SOI are all forms of displaying or showing interest.
There are passive IoIs and Active IoIs. Passive IoIs is when she lets you display interest or hit on her and she accepts it or doesn't reject/show disinterest
Active are when she qualifies herself, moves with you, uses body language, complies to your tasks or requests

-The IoD, she reacts badly, uses body language to show defensiveness, a barrier, closes herself up, facial expressions tht communicate negative or bad emotions, gives silence , etc. She doesn't comply or reacts badly when you try to qualify her, touch her, move her, or use proximity/cutting the space and she either questions what you're doing or taking a step back. Any of these can tell you that she's either not attracted to you or compliant enough to move forward. Also can be her saying she has a boyfriend but thts not absolute all the time as depending on the situation it could be a test, usually its not. All of these things, if she's doing all of these it might be time to move on from tht set cause she's not attracted to you.

-The CT, the different types of qualification, she moves with you, answers your qualification with legitimate responses, complies to your requests and tasks, jumps through your hoops. The more she does so , the more compliance and momentum you have. When she doesn't you have negative compliance and momentum and you can't move forward in the interaction, you need to go backwards building up the compliance until you have enough that you can move forward.

-IVD , instant value demonstrations where you just go into set and start by dhving and using some routines that are small CTs and communicate a bit of interest depending on what your using. Example, using palm reading or using astrology can be used as an IVD. Style used these n talked about them.
Just wanted to add tht.

-The DHV, demonstration of higher value. Just gonna draught a list of them down
+telling her how she is or how you see her/coldreads
+telling a story tht shows your identity n demonstrates who you are .
+value subcommunications
+demonstrating "alphaness"
+smiling and having fun (definitely one of the most important)
+Predselection/Abundance(also one of the most important)
There's a ton of these but the point is that you're displaying your best n most attractive version of yourself n how mystery would say, "displaying or demonstrating tht you can provide survival and replication for her". But to me its just displaying your attractiness tht alot of guys around you don't have.
-DLV, showing pretty much every possible unattractive thing about you, showing neediness or timidness, poor body language, not being loud or having a timid voice, qualifying yourself, getting drunk, doing laps of doom, being on " deathrow" which is just standing with other guys tht are watching other people having fun n just standing there being unhappy/bored/ being unenthusiastic.

When you put them together it looks like this
IOI
IOD
CT
DHV
DLV
Thts basically what it looks lke. Of course there's stuff as I said before lke IVDs or other acronyms lke IAI or SOI but you could probably look those up. But everything above is basically what it all breaks down into. There's a lot of articles out there on this on attraction forums , Libra chronicles, chiefs blog, etc. Personally though those are the BEST imo; you could definitely find a lot out there on this.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 27, 2015 9:58 pm 
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Micro calibration - calibration is basically tailoring your responses based off of the girls responses to you from body language, vocal tonality, the words or content she's saying.
My draughting down thoughts/notes:
-Her responses when you try to qualify her, move her,touch her, or use proximity to measure whether how attracted and comfortable with you getting close to her and closing the space between you both.
Acronyms:
- IoI , IAI , IsI , SOI are all forms of displaying or showing interest.
There are passive IoIs and Active IoIs. Passive IoIs is when she lets you display interest or hit on her and she accepts it or doesn't reject/show disinterest
Active are when she qualifies herself, moves with you, uses body language, complies to your tasks or requests

-The IoD, she reacts badly, uses body language to show defensiveness, a barrier, closes herself up, facial expressions tht communicate negative or bad emotions, gives silence , etc. She doesn't comply or reacts badly when you try to qualify her, touch her, move her, or use proximity/cutting the space and she either questions what you're doing or taking a step back. Any of these can tell you that she's either not attracted to you or compliant enough to move forward. Also can be her saying she has a boyfriend but thts not absolute all the time as depending on the situation it could be a test, usually its not. All of these things, if she's doing all of these it might be time to move on from tht set cause she's not attracted to you.

-The CT, the different types of qualification, she moves with you, answers your qualification with legitimate responses, complies to your requests and tasks, jumps through your hoops. The more she does so , the more compliance and momentum you have. When she doesn't you have negative compliance and momentum and you can't move forward in the interaction, you need to go backwards building up the compliance until you have enough that you can move forward.

-IVD , instant value demonstrations where you just go into set and start by dhving and using some routines that are small CTs and communicate a bit of interest depending on what your using. Example, using palm reading or using astrology can be used as an IVD. Style used these n talked about them.
Just wanted to add tht.

-The DHV, demonstration of higher value. Just gonna draught a list of them down
+telling her how she is or how you see her/coldreads
+telling a story tht shows your identity n demonstrates who you are .
+value subcommunications
+demonstrating "alphaness"
+smiling and having fun (definitely one of the most important)
+Predselection/Abundance(also one of the most important)
There's a ton of these but the point is that you're displaying your best n most attractive version of yourself n how mystery would say, "displaying or demonstrating tht you can provide survival and replication for her". But to me its just displaying your attractiness tht alot of guys around you don't have.
-DLV, showing pretty much every possible unattractive thing about you, showing neediness or timidness, poor body language, not being loud or having a timid voice, qualifying yourself, getting drunk, doing laps of doom, being on " deathrow" which is just standing with other guys tht are watching other people having fun n just standing there being unhappy/bored/ being unenthusiastic.

When you put them together it looks like this
IOI
IOD
CT
DHV
DLV
Thts basically what it looks lke. Of course there's stuff as I said before lke IVDs or other acronyms lke IAI or SOI but you could probably look those up. But everything above is basically what it all breaks down into. There's a lot of articles out there on this on attraction forums , Libra chronicles, chiefs blog, etc. Personally though those are the BEST imo; you could definitely find a lot out there on this.


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