Today a question straight from the practice
I enjoy a lot spanking the cute butts of girls. Best if I can put them over my knee.
My question is pretty simple:
How do I can I make it, that the girls “also enjoy” getting spanked over the knee and reach this best in an efficient way (so that I don´t have to have sex with her for 3 months before spanking her, but at best being able to do it at the first sex)?
My experiences so far:
- Approx. 10-15% of the girls like being put over the knee (this is of course the ideal case) but they usually “can´t tolerate more than a couple of spanks”
- Approx. 1% of the girls really like and can “also tolerate a bit of a harder spanking -> like a red butt and the use of a cooking spoon or something
- Approx. 10-15% find this completely stupid
- the rest likes it if you spank them a bit during the sex on the butt, but they don´t really want to be put over the knee and that would be the case where I would like your recommendations, how exactly can you accomplish that those girls also like getting spanked over the knee
What I've tried so far:
- In the beginning, start very slow with spanking (that should be common sense)
- While they lie over my lap (combine strokes to the butt with stroking their pussy)
My previous approach:
When I have the girls on my bed, while the foreplay and she is on top, I knead her butt first and then I give her a few light to medium swats. I always try to find out if they like it, but it is almost impossible to find out if the girls do not give "clear signs, like groans" or so. If it is not clear, which is the case in 90% of cases, I tell the girls how sexy I think their ass is and how horny it makes. Then I hit them again a little harder on the buttocks and ask them if they like it. Since almost all girls say yes.
Now comes my "spanking-Escalation-Move" =D:
I get up and tell her to get up, too (the girls are usually a bit surprised) and then I sit down on the bed and just pull her over my lap and first stroke her the butt and then lightly start spanking it and watch how she reacts.
Then there are 3 possibilities:
1.) She lets herself get spanked very briefly, but then she doesn´t want any more and I leave it like this and we have normal sex
2.) She lets me spank her a bit, but before it becomes "interesting" it is too hard for her
3.) She belongs to the 10-15%, which are right on it and things get interesting
An idea that I still had, how I could make the whole thing more palatable to the girls:
Take massage oil and apply it to their ass with massage of the butt. The problem here is, however, that the butt is more vulnerable because of the "moisture" and the girls usually endure less
Does anyone have more ideas?
What I still very urgently want to notice, in order to avoid unnecessary questions: I would never really hit a woman or another person / animal. I completely reject violence in the non-sexual and unwanted context!