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PostPosted: Fri Jan 01, 2016 2:27 pm 
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Yo guys, I have this issue that I struggle with from time to time so I could use some advice.
The problem is that I always want girls that are out of reach, when they are in reach i don't care.

Example 1: I had a really hot girlfriend but I didn't really care for her. It was my first relationship (I don't commit fast) and I remember thinking to myself ' this sucks, I tought having a girlfriend would be way more awesome'. As you can predict the relationship didn't last long because I didn't bother to invest time in it. However, at one point she started ignoring me / being short and I never knew the reason for it. When I broke up with her she didn't seem to care. At that point, I suddenly felt 'heartbroke' and I felt like I wanted/needed her.

So the thing is, I never felt anything for her and suddenly when it was over I felt bad about it for like a month.

Example 2: I approached a girl and after she was done working we went out together. We had a great time, dancing close etc. and then she told me she had a boyfriend. At that point she already had my number but nothing happened anymore. She texted me and I texted back ' if you have a boyfriend we shouldn't meet' because I tought it was the right thing to do.

After that; I felt bad for a few days again (until I went out and met others girls). And from time to time I would think about her.
This night she texts me 'I'm single , what are you doing at new years eve?'.
And today I find myself not caring about her anymore. I think it's because subconsiously I know I can get her (if that makes sense) but it's really weird how my feelings change so fast. Like yesterday I would think 'damn that girl was so hot' and feel bad about it, and today I don't think about it at all and don't feel anything towards her.

I know one solution for this 'problem' is meeting more girls because when I'm busy with other girls I never have these feelings. But apart from that, I would just like to know if anyone struggled with this before ?
Is this normal to have these feelings ? I know being needy is the most unattractive thing ever so I never act upon these toughts but still...

Any comment is appreciated :)


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 Post subject: Re: issue
PostPosted: Fri Jan 01, 2016 5:51 pm 
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U seem young with not much experience under your belt. You don't seem very eager to get with women (I could be wrong). Follow ur instincts wherever they may lead. Be socially calibrated when doing so.


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 Post subject: Re: issue
PostPosted: Fri Jan 01, 2016 6:29 pm 
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U seem young with not much experience under your belt. You don't seem very eager to get with women (I could be wrong). Follow ur instincts wherever they may lead. Be socially calibrated when doing so.
You are right, I am not very eager to get with women. When I can get laid 100% sure but it takes me a train ride from 20min for example (had this last week), I probably wouldn't go.

But what exactly do you mean by 'socially calibrated'?


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 01, 2016 6:57 pm 
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Socially calibrated just means read the cues from the girls as any normal man in society does.


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