I don't even do 'proper' dates now. I just invite them straight over to my place for drinks or to chill. They pretty much know what it's for.
When its a pull from a club, they're usually dressed sexy anyway. When it's a pull from daygame, sometimes they're dressed sexy, but sometimes you might have to look a little closer, and you might be surprised to find out what she's wearing underneath. These are examples of meet to fuck on the same day/night.
However if it's a number close and a meet in the future as is more along the lines of your situation, most girls will still show up looking sexy if you've run your game right and they see you romantically too, and if you've been flirting with them and they're coming to your apartment, it's hardly likely they're going to come over not making any effort at all is it?
Yeah you can mention it before they come around and you might get a little more from them if you do it in a way where you're qualifying it in with your flirting. But genuinely it's best to just be relaxed about things and see how she turns up herself, at least for the initial bang. Like I said, most girls will know whats up and will make some sort of effort anyway.
Once you've fucked her, if she was good and you would fuck her again, then you might want to think about seeing her at least one more time or making her a fuck buddy. If you do then after the sex, talk more about sex and start exploring more about what she might be willing to do for you. Then bang her one more time before she goes and it's likely she'll be wanting to come back for more in the future.
Personally I think some girls look hot in jeans. Especially when they've got some nice underwear underneath and they give the ass shape. Unbuttoning the top of them and feeling down to finger her pussy before you take them off her is fucking awesome. And jheez, don't even get me started on high waisted jean shorts.
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I've always had a rule that if a girl shows up in jeans for three dates in a row, she's out
Bro, if you haven't managed to fuck her after 3 dates in a row, you're out.
If you're not really attracted to that, then why would you even tolerate it for 3 dates?