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PostPosted: Thu Feb 23, 2017 12:28 pm 
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Hello everyone , so I'm writing this post just a day after a date I've been having and I've sort of come to a conclusion that I don't know how to make the woman want me sexually. So the same story happened twice on two different dates:
I pick her up we talk the conversation is really good , most of those two dates we were out side walking around and the view is incredible in one of the date I asked her if she wants to take a picture together with the view . So I used kino once in a while - mostly hands parts sometimes face and hair both dates we go to a bar we drink a beer we are having a good conversation and I know she finds me interesting. So afterward we keep walking taward the car we sit down somewhere nice we talk and then I lead it to a kiss . In both dates the kiss was un passionately like I'm the only one kissing . I let go and kiss again maybe she needs to process I don't know ,but still why she's not like " oh god he's kissing me "

I'd like few Advices to help me bring the woman to this sexual desire .
Thanks in advance love you guys


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 23, 2017 1:05 pm 
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Hey RayF,

So this was two dates? So what happened in the first that led to you getting a second?

How did you get the second?

Picture together seems very cringey and may have scared her a bit, these are dates remember... Fun, flirty, sexual and you being the man suggesting a picture comes off very feminine.

Probably need more info but that's how it read to me.

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RayF wrote:
Hello everyone , so I'm writing this post just a day after a date I've been having and I've sort of come to a conclusion that I don't know how to make the woman want me sexually. So the same story happened twice on two different dates:
I pick her up we talk the conversation is really good , most of those two dates we were out side walking around and the view is incredible in one of the date I asked her if she wants to take a picture together with the view . So I used kino once in a while - mostly hands parts sometimes face and hair both dates we go to a bar we drink a beer we are having a good conversation and I know she finds me interesting. So afterward we keep walking taward the car we sit down somewhere nice we talk and then I lead it to a kiss . In both dates the kiss was un passionately like I'm the only one kissing . I let go and kiss again maybe she needs to process I don't know ,but still why she's not like " oh god he's kissing me "

I'd like few Advices to help me bring the woman to this sexual desire .
Thanks in advance love you guys



You mean why is it not like the movies? Maybe the girls just didn't know how to kiss. Or maybe you don't? Lol.

As far as women wanting you sexually; vibes transfer. One person is usually the one that initiates the sexually feelings and begins engaging the other leaving them to share in the feeling or reject the feeling. If you're feeling like women aren't wanting you sexually then perhaps you either aren't very sexual yourself or are low on sexually energy(Too much porn and masturbation). That or, perhaps you're not all that sexually interested in the women you are going for. A lot of guys go after a woman because she's society blue print on what attractive is, but these women aren't necessarily what turns these guys on. So make sure these are the kinds of women you're actually into so that you can properly generate those emotions for them. And you won't just be giving weak kisses, because you think thats what you're suppose to do.

A had a girl at my house last night that I didn't touch just because I wasn't all the turned on by her. She was a little too skinny for me. I would of been forcing it, and while it may or may not of been successful, it wouldn't of been passion or worth it for either of us.

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 23, 2017 7:17 pm 
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Bren90 wrote:
Hey RayF,

So this was two dates? So what happened in the first that led to you getting a second?

How did you get the second?

Picture together seems very cringey and may have scared her a bit, these are dates remember... Fun, flirty, sexual and you being the man suggesting a picture comes off very feminine.

Probably need more info but that's how it read to me.

Bren


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PostPosted: Thu May 04, 2017 5:24 am 
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This is some old school pick up, but I would go for one of two methods of cultivating physicality in your seduction. The first is the Tyler Durden method. Just be ass grabby and handsy and boyishly playful the whole time. Kino just flows naturally from that type of behavior. Doesn't have to be that outlandish and obscene either, but it has to be very hands on right from the beginning. It sets the tone of the relationship, which is that you are all about escalating. Even if she is offput at first, if you keep it up she'll either warm up to you or eventually make it clear its not working. And if not, see the next method.

The second would be the Style method, or at least the part of his game where he really tries to get into the girl's head with the eliciting values routine and NLP. If you can strike that emotional connection the girl will unlock herself and she'll go along with any escalation you try on her. I once asked this girl on our second date how she felt about the topic of "forgiveness". She had been molested as a child by a family member apparently (which I didn't know till much later), so that topic was near and dear to her heart. It's fucked up I know, but it resonated. You could tell she immediately emotionally connected with me, her whole countenance changed. She was putty in my hands after that. A lot of the times we fail to seduce because we never make that deep connection emotionally. That's what most women want, and it really helps with the seduction phase.

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Here's a post that gives you some very actionable steps from reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/com ... ttraction/

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