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 Post subject: Johannesburg (SA)
PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 9:30 am 
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Hey everyone, my name is Henko, I'm 24 and live in JHB.

I got into the community a few years ago after I was fed up with, generally my whole social life.
Having loser friends, not going out on the weekends, not meeting new people and just having a boring life.

Last year I was the worst I ever was, I was unemployed for nearly a whole year, still had no friends,
had to rely on my parents to pay for pretty much everything I had. I put on a ton of weight and I had (have) no girlfriend, no friends...it was a big mess.

One day, I just decided to completely change everything.

I got my shit together, found a good stable job (one that I finally enjoy), I've been exercising regularly, losing weight, eating healthy, learning new things everyday (Japanese being of em) and just started looking after myself better...but even with all this change going on, I realized that my social life still isn't where it should be. I made a promise to myself that 2015 was going to be THE year I was going to make it.

I've read The Game, watched the videos, listened to the audio books and taken in all the theory about pickup, but there is no point in learning this if I wont ever put it into action. When I practiced approaching, I always did it Direct; Telling the girl straight what you think of her. I tried going Indirect, and as successful the approaches were,it wasn't my style...so I learnt from Adam Lyons and Kezia, my 2 favourite PUA's teaching Direct.

So now that things are going well for me, I want to take this hobby up again like I used to.

I want to meet other people who are easy going and also want to improve on themselves, and even
form friendships. I know how hard it is to make friends and meet new people (especially with this kind of hobby haha).

I know us South Africans are a little conservative, so we can even start a SPAM group instead of coming back to the forum (for the lair anyway).

I'm not afraid to admit, I'm an AFC...but I know enough to claw my way out of this shit and become my best self. I'm not afraid anymore. I welcome a good challenge, even it means starting all over again as a new me. If we are all AFC's, lets meetup and change TOGETHER.

So what do you say guys, do you want to join me? :)


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 Post subject: Re: Johannesburg (SA)
PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 4:45 pm 
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Hi Henko

I'min fourways and am avidly learning this stuff.

I'd be keen to do this with you


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 Post subject: Re: Johannesburg (SA)
PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 7:05 pm 
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Hey Riley

Cool man, how long have you been into pickup?

You like direct or indirect? :)


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 Post subject: Re: Johannesburg (SA)
PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2015 11:29 am 
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Hi bud

I'm very new. I opened about 20 night time sets indirectly so far, and 2 day sets directly. I have some serious sticking points, I'd love to meet with someone else keen on pick up to discuss and learn.

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 Post subject: Re: Johannesburg (SA)
PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2015 12:23 pm 
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Cool bro, I also have some sticking point, ill watsapp you later yeah.

It would be awesome if we could even get a Watsapp grouo going.
Would be far easier than having to check back on the forum all the time.


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 Post subject: Re: Johannesburg (SA)
PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2015 4:12 pm 
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Hi. I have monitored this site for many years now and I can honestly say that it's the same thing over and over. Men in general are struggling with these things and there are no real support out there. I have done 5 bootcamps in my life from which 2 was in England and 3 in South Africa. The last one was with [MODIFIED BY MODERATOR TO REMOVE IDENTIFIABLE INFORMATION]. Now there is a real money making scheme. Learned nothing I didn't already knew and above all of that they guarantee 100% success, 100% on what!!. That you get the number or get laid. Any person that claims a 100% on any thing especially when it comes to the unpredictable women or people in general, is a fraud. There are so many variables when you walk into a clubs an unforeseen circumstances that no one can make that claim. I have personally witnessed one of the pua trainers escorting one of his female friends out the clubs when no one was looking which can only be considered as con/stage to make sure that the men doing the course gets the undevied attention of a female and maybe a number. I recognise her from the seminar they had in Sandton last year. From all the guys(25 people) I met during my infield no one thought that it was money well spend. It's now been a couple of months later and no one is going out anymore. To top it all of [MODIFIED BY MODERATOR TO REMOVE IDENTIFIABLE INFORMATION] have an refresher course for those who have fallen back into their "old ways", realy!! A refresher course. Some men are just stupid and they believe that a couple of routines/line/gambits etc.. is going to get you laid. It might, "that is exactly why they say it's a numbers game". If you walk upto ever women you see and ask them if they want to fuck you then surely you might get lucky by number 70. Would you still call it a numbers game. Most men keep on reaching for the upper numbers 8,9 and 10's but have you ever thought that for you to get a woman like that you need to be a 8 0r 9 yourself. Most importantly it is what you think of yourself.


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