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So I have been with this girl for a few months now. Things are amazing when we are together, but kinda luke warm when we aren't. Text game isn't something she cares for. She doesn't use her phone much.
Anyways, last night she told me she thinks we should just be friends because in a year she is graduating college and wants to move away from the state we currently live in. While she has claimed she loves me and such she says that it would be unfair to both of us to continue when it has to end eventually. I have explained to her that while I have many years of school ahead of me, I am a med student, there is no reason things can't work. I am not attached to this particular state. No family here, transferring schools is completely easy, I have the grades and funds to go anywhere, and I really wouldn't mind doing it for this girl. This didn't persuade her as she feels it is just unfair to me and that she feels that she needs to make a life for herself before she makes one with someone else.
So, any advice guys? Any chance to convince her to follow logic instead of CFE (Crazy female emotions)? Or should I just hang up the towel and move on? I really like this girl, but if it has to go it has to go. I'd really like to try and figure it out if I could though.
I could be way off base here but it seems like she is using the whole moving in a year thing to just dump ya now. Maybe she wants to be single, maybe she likes someone else, who knows with some women... If you guys were really solid I'd think she do everything she could for the relationship. I'd take it for what it is, not waste anymore time with someone who doesn't want to be with me, and graciously move on.