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Kolt45
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 Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 12:48 am Post subject: Problems Phase Shifting |
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The otherday i went out clubbing with a wing.
I had already made plans with this girl to meet @ the club, she came.
Through out the night I played The Game to the best of my new PUA status.
I walked in with a smile, approached women with conversation, shot negs @ them & gave time constraints to build interest for my original target(the girl I made plans with) within 30 mins of being there I was getting invited to other events by other women.
Near the end of the night i had her dancing with me, laughing with me & flirting galore. I knew in my head that it was time for a phase shift, the IOI's were there, but for some reason i got nervous & couldn't bring myself to just spin her around and kiss.
I get lost in the whole fun of things & forget whats next.
can anyone help me with this or have any ideas or things they've done that worked? |
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JSmooth
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Yes you didn't mention that you had been escalating kino from the begining. You should from about 15-30 seconds into meeting you start some light kino. The kino grows as the night goes on so when you go in for the kiss it's not a big deal, but the next logical step.  So my advice to you is start kino esclating sooner in your interactions, and it won't be as hard to pull the trigger.
Also perhaps use a kiss gambit like, "Do you want to kiss me?" Yes- Kiss her. Maybe- "Let's find out" Kiss her. No- "I didn't say you could, just looked like you had something on your mind!"
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Kolt45
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Rogue Hero
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| Light touching...kino stands for kinesthetic. Examples include putting your hand on her shoulder casually, touching her hand, her hair. That sort of thing. |
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Ezoghoul
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I do not want to disrespect anyone here... But all PUA literature is full of kino... The Game, the venusian arts, everything!
Kino, any physical interaction between you and her!
Ezo |
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elkid27
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| Its something you will have to learn to do. There is a switch in your head that transforms you into you. The good news is you knew when the moment was. The bad news is you let yourself over analyze the situation. You have to make the action happen before you can think about it. You hit the switch and go and do not look back. If you start to think you will not do it, you will find excuses. If it comes down to this think of it this way. At the end of the night do you wanna say you had a kick ass time cuz you went balls to the wall and manned up to it. Or do you wanna come back home and write on this asking what went wrong and wondering how it could have been different. Just think, balls to the wall, hit the switch, and go. |
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Mr.Right
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| Posted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 6:30 am Post subject: good. |
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| good advice there... ill emphasize that by also including that kino can also influence and lead on to advanced states comfort and attraction. |
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