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Kolt45
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 Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 12:47 am Post subject: Problems phase shifting |
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The otherday i went out clubbing with a wing.
I had already made plans with this girl to meet @ the club, she came.
Through out the night I played The Game to the best of my new PUA status.
I walked in with a smile, approached women with conversation, shot negs @ them & gave time constraints to build interest for my original target(the girl I made plans with) within 30 mins of being there I was getting invited to other events by other women.
Near the end of the night i had her dancing with me, laughing with me & flirting galore. I knew in my head that it was time for a phase shift, the IOI's were there, but for some reason i got nervous & couldn't bring myself to just spin her around and kiss.
I get lost in the whole fun of things & forget whats next.
can anyone help me with this or have any ideas or things they've done that worked? |
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Mr. Perfect
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| Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 11:47 pm Post subject: Re: Problems phase shifting |
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| Kolt45 wrote: | The otherday i went out clubbing with a wing.
I had already made plans with this girl to meet @ the club, she came.
Through out the night I played The Game to the best of my new PUA status.
I walked in with a smile, approached women with conversation, shot negs @ them & gave time constraints to build interest for my original target(the girl I made plans with) within 30 mins of being there I was getting invited to other events by other women.
Near the end of the night i had her dancing with me, laughing with me & flirting galore. I knew in my head that it was time for a phase shift, the IOI's were there, but for some reason i got nervous & couldn't bring myself to just spin her around and kiss.
I get lost in the whole fun of things & forget whats next.
can anyone help me with this or have any ideas or things they've done that worked? |
You couldve possibly changed locations to somwhere more isolated ( not too far), somewhere where there arent so many people looking, maybe leaned against something or sat on a couch ( many options) and try some things to see if the thought of kissing you crossed her mind ( which it shouldve by now) and get closer to her and do something with your lips like licking them and when she looks at them you use a k-close
usually when a women looks at the other persons lips a couple of times its because its on her mind or shes thought about it...
just make sure theres comfort and that it feels natural..the kiss has to be very smooth |
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