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Freud
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 Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 7:43 pm Post subject: Problems number closing. |
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| Hey, for some reason when i get into a set, even if things are going well, and im getting IOIs i still get super nervous (equal to or worse then AA) when i want to go in for the number close. I think im just too much into my own head or something, or i start analyzing the interaction, and my LSE kicks in telling me i dont have enough attraction. Any cures? (I need that brain transplant NLP stuff or something) |
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Hobbit
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| Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 3:54 am Post subject: |
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I want you to take out your phone and check the time. Then, without saying anything, hand it to her. She'll know what to do. Usually she will then call her phone to get your number. If she asks what is this for, you can either say "Put your number in" or you can reply "You lost your opportunity" and take the phone back. More than likely she'll beg for a second chance.
No matter how nervous you are, you can hand her your cellphone. Try it and see what happens. Worse thing she can do is take it and run away. But I would advise to not try to pick up pick-pockets if that happens. |
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 9:21 am Post subject: |
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| also try relocating your target before closing, that way she doesnt have to flirt with you in front of the whole group |
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Mad Hatter
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| Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 9:29 am Post subject: |
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| all right, you need to remember the number isnt anywhere near your goal!!!!!! numbers are merely meant as a process of timebridging and if you timebridge correctly you dont even need a #. So next time you get a number be sure to get a location and time to go along with that number othrwise it doesnt mean shit. Also, i tend not to ask for anumber, you know have the mindset of, why should i go outa my way to get hers when i can get anyother girls # in this place? She should be offering out her number as an ioi... |
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