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SvenBula
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 Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 11:50 am Post subject: Problem getting into a stable relation |
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Hi guys, I need help.
I'm naturally a pretty fun and intelligent guy, and my game is ok but there's something that makes the whole thing too much hard work.
I can't point the problem out, but I often get a reaction from the girls like "wow this guy is the best!" but then later on the tend to get bored. This can be after 10 minutes, or after ours sometimes days. This one good looking girl I slept with for a couple of weeks, and we had a pretty stable FB-relation, BUT she never stopped shittesting me. I don't want to see her anymore cause its so annoying. I see the same things happening online, I get into a good comfort building state, and all of a sudden they start being bitchy and again throwing shittests.
I think the girls like me but they seem to never get really comfortable, and I also think I somehow destroy the original attraction.
In mysterys statemachine I would have to put dotted arrows from the C and S - states to A2, to make it fit to my game.
Are my expectations to high? Is it impossible to get some categories of girls into stable and non-warlike relations? Or is it just lack of alpha-male characteristics on my behalf? |
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DeathWish
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| Dude the biggest thing you have to remember is that people arent always trying to fuck with you. You have to remember that not jumping through her hoops(shit tests) creates attraction. Once you are in comfort you should be willing to do some things for her to a point. Remember push pull. Dont try and over analyze things. Besides women will shit test you even if youve known them for years... |
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Mr. Amador
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| Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 8:34 pm Post subject: Re: Problem getting into a stable relation |
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Are my expectations to high? Is it impossible to get some categories of girls into stable and non-warlike relations? Or is it just lack of alpha-male characteristics on my behalf? |
Well sounds like you are doing something wrong.
Why would a gril just shit-test you non stop?
Answer: You pissed her of
Maybe, and most likely, it was was your attitude.
Its hard to tell what you did wrong cause...becuase you posted so little information.
Post more details so we can help you. |
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SvenBula
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| Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 1:32 am Post subject: |
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thank you guys for your replies
I know I am over analyzing but I can't help it, there is something wrong. Before I got into the game I was the king of cocky funny teasing, I never stopped, and I somehow got the girls all the way, but after some time they couldn't stand all this teasing. I could not get into a stable relation.
now a days I try to go build comfort but that's where they get bored... I'm really bad at qualifying her and giving compliments. Everytime I try to be nice, the attraction dies. I think once my status is lost they start to test my over again. How can I compliment and build comfort without loosing status and attraction, is a question I've never really been able to answer.... I guess this is my problem |
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