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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?


A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?


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If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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 Post subject: One Itis
PostPosted: Mon Aug 21, 2017 3:57 am 
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What is the best way to deal with a one itis? I don't mean how to get over your One itis but how would you go about gaming your One Itis so you wouldnt fail like soooo many guys do.


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 Post subject: Re: One Itis
PostPosted: Wed Aug 23, 2017 11:53 pm 
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Thekid69 wrote:
What is the best way to deal with a one itis? I don't mean how to get over your One itis but how would you go about gaming your One Itis so you wouldnt fail like soooo many guys do.



Believe it or not I had a case of this the other day with a chick. I grown a bit attached to her and it felt fucking horrible. What I've done and been doing is just hitting the gym harder and going out and talking to other women. I replaced the time i gave her with other women and had some logic and reason talks to myself. It can be rough depending how much time you had with that person. Best advice I can give is occupy yourself with other women because you'll grow a interest in them and replace the one you had with her. I mean you can do other stuff to occupy time , but the reality is how can you relate going on with your guy friends or watching a movie or reading with thinking about a girl? You can't... least not well... So the best way is to go out and meet chicks. Just get off your ass and go out anywhere<<< and commit to meeting new people.

As a word of advice now that you had a "oneitus" don't ever let yourself get into that position again. Stay emotionally reserved until you are ready to commit to a relationship


AND LAST..... DO NOT CONTACT YOUR ONEITUS!!!!! FOR ANY REASON!!!!! DO NOT TRY TO MAKE HER JELOUS!!! NO CONTACT PERIOD. TREAT IT LIKE A BAD BREAKUP. IF SHE RESPONDS DO NOT RESPOND FOR AT LEAST A MONTH. IT'S TIME TO WORK ON YOU<


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 Post subject: Re: One Itis
PostPosted: Mon Aug 28, 2017 1:35 am 
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This is really good advice. Especially the part about talking to other women. The part about not responding for at least a month if she texts you. My onitis does snapchat me and text me about once every week or two on average. Are you saying I should do a freeze out on her?

Trying to make her Jealous might backfire.. However if I do try to get with her I will

1) Definitely need to reframe the relationship, how she sees me and control the frame

2) Take my self out of the selection as potential sex partner/ Boyfriend

3) DHV A lot with a combination of negs and showing a lot of preselection

- DHV to the point she can't possible ignore that I'm of equal to higher value to her.. Preferably Higher Value.. Which in turn will create massive amounts of attraction and cause her to want to invest and chase me

4) Get her to Chase me rather than me chasing here

- This will cause her to invest a lot more and get her more attracted and more emotionally attached which will cause a Power Flip in the Relationship giving me all the power and the upper hand.. Making me seem even more High Value to her. It will also allow me to Qualify her a lot more, Meet up with her, Isolate her from her group and Build emotional and Physical Comfort with her.. Which will lead us into Seduction


I think I also need to work on other areas of my life such as health aka hitting the gym ect.. Work, any skills I want to develop, inner game and overall just making my self more High Status and Higher Value

My one itis is on a 9.5 Blonde Bombshell who is very socially savvy and maybe an Alpha Female. She gets hit on by guys all the time and She's fully Aware that she can get a guy anytime. Which is either a Big problem or a big Opportunity for me.. Maybe both


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