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The thing i found with going no contact is that if the relationship wasnt abusive they ALWAYS come back.
Yep.
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At one point i mentioned how shes weirding me out
You're a dominant male. You are her rock,. not the one to get weak kneed and nervous.
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, to which she responded that no matter how weird it gets that she still cares about me and its important to her that im safe and well. the whole exchange was very reserved, not sure if its on account of her being scared to initiate, having someone else, losing interest, trying to back out etc. but it came as a surprise given that a week ago she was telling me she was thinking of me.
Beware of what I call "Debbie Downer" talks. This is absolutely one of them. They are the "kiss of death" with socially valuable women (not obese, 9's and 10's) when you have these talks early on. Save them for after she brings up exclusivity, and even then limit them to only essential issues.
the girl broke up with a guy, is in therapy, went to funerals, and doesn't want to see her phone lighting up with negative emotions. Your job is to keep it light, fun, and hot until she's in love with you.
I'm not saying she's perfect (far from it, I know the type), but I'm just letting you know where you can improve within the context of early courtship. Until a woman has "the talk" with you, or says she loves you, the mistakes you can get away with are few (9's and 10's). You can do whatever the fuck you want with 6's and under.