Somewhat uneventful FR, but still wanna write it down as I like to journal everything and look back/remind myself of various things.
I was in Brighton which is a fairly cool seaside resort town in the UK.
First approach I was on the dancefloor and there’s 2 girls next to me. An 8 and a 5. I’m a little bit in my head as i’ve not made an approach in 2 weeks for various reasons. I also have a woeful track record for dancefloor approaches. Had some very embarrassing, brutal rejections in my time on the dancefloor, lol.
Anyway, I’m dancing near them and I hear the 5 tell the 8 that that she’s going to the bar and she leaves. I just say the first thing that pops into my head and open the 8 and it’s something like ”your friend really shouldn’t leave you alone with just me. I get very ‘handsy”’ She cracks up laughing. I go into a JulianRSDpimp vibe and fire questions at her in a kind of accusatory fashion. She seems to hook and is asking me things back. I’m giving her playful answers. Her friend comes back. I can’t remember what I said here but I definitely managed to win the friend over and made her laugh.
A few minutes later the 5 says ”we’re going outside”. I say ”You’re leaving me!! How rude” and pretend to be like mock-offended. The 8 says ”You can come”. I say ”lets do it” and lead them outside.
Here I bump into all of my friends. A mix of guys and girls. They greet me which I guess is good social proof, however, immediately one of my lame friends (one of the few people even worse than me with girls!!
) jumps in and starts getting involved which I kind of felt killed the vibe a little bit. He never opens girls. Only jumps in to sets that I open.
I move attention to the 8 again and I’m chatting and making her laugh. Making silly assumptions about her. At one point I tell her that she must be a pisces. I was right. Now, I don’t know shit about startsigns but I know it can be ‘chick crack’ as Tyler used to say. She’s mildy impressed that I got it right and I tell her it’s a gift I have. Then she says to me ”OK, what about her!?” (points at the 5)
Without skipping a beat I say ”Well she’s obviously a capricorn! It's as Clear as fucking day”. I literally only know like 3 starsigns and it was just luck, but her mouth drops in shock. Then she grabs her friend whilst my friend is running his ‘game’ and interrupts them and tells them what just happened. The 5 is like ”What he got both of them first time?! How?!!”. Was quite funny.
It was all going well from my perspective, but a few minutes later, the 5 said ”Anyway, it was nice meeting you” and grabbed the 8’s wrist. She said something like ”Come find us later” but I didn’t see them again.
Then I opened a girl when I was by myself coming out of the bathroom and she was walking past me fast. I stopped her and decided to try the evolutionDaily guy style So I used some fake ”familiarity opener” and pretended to recognise her from somewhere but them quickly followed up with ”I’m just talking shit. I just thought you were hot and wanted to say hi”. I ran a little routine about her facial expression and one about the rings on her finger but I never really felt that I had a shot. It just didn’t feel like it was going anywhere. IN hindsight I guess I should have tried to move her around and lead her somewhere – maybe teh dancefloor or outside or something instead of just standing near the bathrooms in near where people were sitting down and stuff. She ended up bailing after about 5 minutes.
I went to the bar and realised i’m standing next too another 8 who appears to be with 2 friends. I notice she has small feet and I open her and tease her about her tiny feet. She actually hooks fast and tells me her friends make fun of her about them. I’m like ”I don’t blame them! They’re ridiculous!” I tease her about wearing childs shoes and stuff. Then I ask her a bit about her self.
Then her friend who has just got served turns towards us and is just looking so I quickly try to get her involved and tell her that the 8 was just flirting with me and introduce myself. The 8 giggles, but the 5 just doesn’t really seem to like me much and looks at me like i’m gonna potentially ruin her girly night with her friends, lol and she basically pulls the other 2 away.
Annoyingly (and I don’t know whether it’s accurate) but my friend said that he overheard the hot one say that I was ”alright” (which basically means sex-worthy here in England in that context lol) so maybe I had a better shot than I realised
There were a few other opens that I can’t recall very clearly, and I also could have had sex with one of the girls in my group, but I had no interest in that. She not my type at all, and even though I still want to get my lay count up too that of a proper person, I have to have SOME standards! lol – would probably be different if I was a virgin, though.
So yeah, fairly uneventful.
I’m probably JINXING myself here, but on the plus side, I’ve gotten much fewer ”Who the fuck are you and why are you talking to me!?” type reactions/expressions from girls i’ve opened recently – possibly a result of just being slightly less anxious about it all, or maybe just luck.