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I'd received most of the advice before I sent my last msg. Everyone said be concise and to the point, that's what I'd have been and would be on pre-date phone calls going forward.
Why do you need "pre-date phone calls"? You set a date, then you get off the phone and do work. Or work out.
Four to five texts max when you first text her. Get to the point, because it shows you also know how to get to the point in bed, too. Andin your career.
My gf gave me a green light this week. I went on a site called Plenty of Fish (lol). let me tell you, if the women there spent as much effort into calorie counting as they do a hundred different contorted angles to make themselves not look obese, they'd be much better off.
Anyway, I ran across a woman who interested me. Here's what I said:
Me: Hey, XXX, I'm digging your look. And I like to get to the point.
Her: Helloooo, I like that.
Me: I have to get back to a project, but shoot me your number so we can have some fun next week.
Her: *gives me her number* You better!
Me: Cool, nice meeting you.
DONE.
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If I'd be "nervous neurotic and emotional wreck" without having to escalate or look at the person, there really isn't much point bothering with a date.
Most guys are bad judges at what neurotic/nervous is. They think they're cool, but they're not. and when they "course correct", it's usually a drive down Beta Male Lane, replacing the nervousness with male butler syndrome.