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She was always texting me first
That's usually how it happens. Then as you get needier, you end up reaching out more, and she withdraws.
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I wasnt chill all the time tho. I should play it more cool, true to that.
There's no reason/was no reason for you NOT to be chill. You had a taken woman get on her knees for you.
What's the fucking problem? Life is good, man. Men tend to create all these problems in their head when there aren't any.
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But also she wasn't typical single girl, but girl that was hurt, living with her boyfriend. Well, whatever. I guess I should act like nothing happened right now ? That's what you would propably do Arch.
You got dumped.
I gave you the advice I did because I've been there, in this exact situation. My mistake was (as yours was) was putting too much emphasis on HER and what she thought/what she was doing instead of putting emphasis on how I was showing up, and continuing to see other women.
I know this type of woman, classic monkey-brancher (doesn't live alone between boyfriends, always has to have one), insecure as fuck, probably bi, with a higher sex drive. She took you for a test drive, was really hot for you early on.
But as time progressed, she withdrew. Why?
Over-contact via phone, and you acted less dominant than her boyfriend. If you (and I at the time in this scenario) had kept contact only to hook-up arrangements, and had gamed other women DURING this, and maintaining a sense of aloofness, it would drive women like this fucking cray to the point they'd do anything for you. They get a ton of attention, so when a guy walks away or doesn't text for weeks, it works them up. IE "What the hell happened to him? Am I not good enough?"
I've learned a lot since this happened to me years ago, specifically involving hot women who are taken. That first night you hook up, be a demon in bed. Make them cum a lot. be passionate, lead. Then kick them out and wait for them to text you. In fact, when a girl has a bf, I advocate never texting her first after first sex.
Remember, shes CHOOSING to continue to live/be with her guy (maybe temporarily, but it's still a fact). She's acting like a player, so treat her like one.