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PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2017 9:50 pm 
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is it weird to ask for a girl's number after she added you to social media?

I met this chick at a club and she offered both her number and facebook friendship... at the time, I went off the advice of a friend. that is, to link up with her on social media. His theory was that if a girl is extremely hot than odds are she won't remember you later on... if you don't link up with her immediately. However, I hate social media, and try to avoid Facebook. is it weird now to ask for her number?


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2017 9:57 pm 
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How about you strike up a conversation first..

What are you going to do when you get her number.. Text her or call? If you're going to text, then just text her on facebook. Have a short conversation first and then go for the number. Coming straight out with it when you didn't make an emotional connection yet is a low rate chance of success.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 18, 2017 12:09 am 
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I mean she offered her number so it isn't completely out of the blue for you to ask. But really you should have just gotten the digits right then and there.

Why didn't you sleep with her that night?

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 18, 2017 5:59 am 
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DJ_Z wrote:
Why didn't you sleep with her that night?


That. Numbers from clubs won't amount to anything if nothing happens that night. For the most part.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 12:26 am 
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Eddie few, is it possible to establish an "emotional connection" over fb messenger? I always think that stories come across as less effective due to the fact that there's no tonality


She contacted me 30min after the club closed to tell me how good it was to meet me... I prob should of suggested we meet then; was tired; she had come up to me three times that night; the next day she was following me on her friend's fb wall

I'm not sure how to start a conversation via fb w her without looking like I'm trying too hard "overcompensating"... and a "sticking point " seems to be digital conversation....( I say really risky stuff which better suited in person) this girls seems to have a sense of humor I just didn't find our interactions to be so memorable... that's how she put it in her texts... but I know some girls do this as standard way to prospect guys .... for other girls, it's done out of attraction

The last conversation I had she just said she was away for Fourth of July in Kansas w her family and then in Spain and would ping when she gets back


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 20, 2017 9:33 pm 
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now that it's after the fact, should i invite her out or flirt with her via fb and get her number later?


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 20, 2017 11:55 pm 
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Invite. You want as little conversation as possible.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 21, 2017 1:43 am 
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In reply to her FB msg: "it ws fun : P let's get a drink X night..."


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 21, 2017 3:34 am 
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i know how to ask out a chick to drinks...

I'm just over thinking this.... plus if she says no there are other chicks

I always think if you don't engage a chick quickly, they loose interest....


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 21, 2017 3:36 am 
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felipe89 wrote:
I always think if you don't engage a chick quickly, they lose interest....

Correct oftentimes.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 21, 2017 3:43 am 
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I guess it depends on the initial interaction, her interest level and how many other options she has


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 24, 2017 11:46 pm 
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nevermind all is good; she invited me out last saturday night but I had work to do on my computer and at this club...


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