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PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2017 10:27 am 
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Hi, so I've been doing PUA for 6 years now and have to admit that I've been quite successful, even my friends admire me and others however I know deep down my game is not good as everyone thinks. My weakest point is my verbal game, running out of things to say and being generic in conversation. It wasn't always like this I think but due to illness/ money I had to drop all my hobbies and passions( motorcycles, poker, bodybuilding and other sports, travel etc) thus I literally have nothing interesting to say.I find myself being quick witty when I'm tipsy and the girls love it but I don't want to really on alcohol. Obviously I am talking in context of night game as day game is easy if you practice it (talking aspect) but obviously you not gonna talk about same stuff that you would during the day. My lifestyle now consist of spending all day at house and only talking to people in the evening (practicing pua few days a week). All my friends now are pickup artist which I get along very easily as we have common ground but I find it hard to talk to outsiders. From the description above, you propably think im some weirdo but in reality im really cool guy( thats what they tellin me;)) is just that my life situation is quite unique . How can I fix this? I know I can pull a girl from dancefloor as I did numerous times but my talk sucks and I want to fix it


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 Post subject: Re: weak verbal game
PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2017 1:13 pm 
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How many women do you talk to on average when you've been going out for the last 2 weeks?

Once you develop your skill set, picking up women becomes all about establishing a rhythm. It's about going out, getting social, and warming up. I usually don't know what to say either when I first pop up into a club if i hadn't talked to women yet. I'm not warmed up yet. Even professional athletes get on the court/field before the game starts to warm up. Professional performers still rehearse and come for the mic check. That's how the game goes.

One thing however is to come to grips with the quality of women you're looking for and screen the women you approach to see if they are that. You're not approaching women to get with them, you're approaching them to find out if they fit your lifestyle. It becomes about YOU, not about getting them.

Example: If you're looking for a girlfriend, you may want to find a way to get a girl to talk about her family, the kind of relationship she has with her dad, and when the last time she was in a relationship.

If you're looking for a one night stand you should be screening a girl to find out whether or not she can do it by discussing her logistics. " Where her friends are, where she lives, how often does she come out to clubs."

Guys that don't know what to talk about usually just have no direction. They have no goal. They're just going out haphazardly hoping for the best. Get some structure. Figure out what it is you want, and then talk to a woman to see whether or not they are that.

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