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That presupposes there are no other appealing guys. It's not "one appealing guy" and then "zero appealing guys". It's more of a mix.
I'm not talking numbers. I was going off of your statement of "they will often come back at you when they tire of the emotional and needy men they are hanging with." If in that mix there are guys that are emotionally centered, non-needy men then chances are they won't come back to you because they'll eliminate the ones that are emotionally and needy.
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Yes they do.
No they don't put men on a backlog. There is no attractive women that will call and say, "Hey, this is blahblah and we met a few months ago...," because she has finally eliminated all of the guys that she may have been interested in and now she has the opportunity to give you a chance unless men are scarce.
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sure, but they may be conflicted as to the best option.
Again, this goes back to risking rejection. A guy that has the potential to reject her isn't an option.
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It's possible.
It's also possible to win the lottery but the chances are real low.
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I've been ghosted, and had them come back. I've fucked girls, been told "I hate you", then had them come back a month, two months later to hook up.
You never really know what's going on in their life. All you can do is be the best you.
I'm not saying that girls don't come back...but the ones that come back are the ones that come back because of a previous attachment to a guy(like you just mentioned about your experience). To say that they come back because they are tired of emotionally uncentered and needy guys is a huge stretch. If a woman takes a guy off of the backlog, it's because she's out of options. There are literally no guys that are appealing to her and she is limited in how she can attract more, so why not go back to the guys that she put on hold? If her only options are the guys that she put on hold, then there is something wrong with her.