Date on sunday (online match). Everything goes great. She smart, sweet and hot.
Second venue I take her, I kiss her. I kinda like her so I'm thinking about taking things slow, get to know her better before I escalate. But then this "game theory -> always go for the pull" gets the better of me.
I lead her to her home. She tells me she has roommates. I meet one of them (a dude).
We go to her bedroom, she easily follows my lead. We are naked on her bed and I'm fingering her hard, she's moaning hard.
Suddenly this roommate starts banging like a freakin' maniak on the door shouting stuff like
"get a hotel room, have some respect!"
And then starts running down the appartement slamming doors and shouting crazy stuff.
I'm lying there naked pretty shocked just like she is. This stuff goes on at least 10min. I'm not hard anymore...
During that time I ask her If this guy is in love with her.
She starts telling that she was seeing him months ago and that he is still in love with her.
The maniac doesnt stop. She decided to go talk to him so I sneaky follow to listen to the convo.
That shit's pathetic: "I love you so much, You've been using me as a boytoy, you've ignored me for 2 months straight and now you're here fucking another dude, blablabla".
We get out of the appartement planning on going to my house but we decide to just go for a drink since we're both just shocked...
The day after I get this text:
Hi, I've thought about yesterday a lot.I'm so sorry for what happened with my roommate.
I didnt even tell you about me working for my ex 5 year relationship) who's only just getting used to the idea I'll be with someone else one day. Apparently my life is full of loose ends and that's my fault.
I'm really not ok with yesterdag and the fact I havent heared from you yet means you think the same. I understand that. Anyway you are the best kisser and as far as I could tell very sweet. More would have been nice but I guess we didnt got a good start. And it seems my life or me isnt ready for more. Again I feel so bad you had to experience this yesterday.
My answer:
I'm kind of dazzled by what happened. Think we went 2 fast. Let's just sink everything in and start over Can we talk about it?
Her:
Please give me some more time. When I see you I'm gonna want to kiss you and more. It's absurd how physical we are.
Me:
I meant having a phone call. But ok, I guess I'll hear you...
So my question:
I really liked our date and just feel everything went way 2 fast. Would like to see her again and see what happens.
Should I wait or call/contact her?
Tnx!