Hi guys quick question I'm 28 SPAM t i'm fit workout and told i'm fairly good looking but the problem is i never used to dance until recently because i was always shit and i still am but the difference now is i don't give a fuck what people think. So i know i need to work on my moves so to speak lol but i want to know how and when is it alright to touch the girl? Meaning sometimes when i'm having fun i seem to have girls coming to me but that's far and few SPAM but should i grab them on there hips, waist?

For example last night there was this cute Asian girl who seems to force her way towards me and stand in front of me twerking me a bit so i put my hands on her waist and she seemed to get annoyed and moved to another guy and then this guy was grabbing her boobs and more or less fingering her straight away and she seemed to be into it. So question is how do i go about getting attention and where and how should i touch the girl?

A tip my friend gave me is: start by grazing.
Graze your hands and remove until she gets comfortable. Then you can do whatever you want,

Or just don't go to the dance floor

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These hos ain't loyal

You don't. This is my answer.

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I would not dance with her. When she dances, she controls you this way.

just dance near her and make eye contact

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Eh I don't even think it's some power struggle. That's post modernist bs. My thought is more "if you don't want to dance, don't." Hell, literally watch the scene from Hitch it's perfect if you're scared and not sure what to do. But the goal of the dance floor is to generate revenue in the club by hyping people up and then slowing things down in order to get the crowd to the bar. A dj in a club is basically air traffic control.

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You may have been a bit hesitant when touching her.

Be forceful but in a gentle, confident way.