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PostPosted: Sat Jun 03, 2017 4:08 pm 
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I was at the bar last night and pulled off a kiss close on this sexy little 18 year old. I talked to this girl for about 3 minutes, increasing the intimacy of my kino gradually which worked like a charm. I used this trick I read in The Layguide where you bet a girl a dollar that you can kiss her without lips or tongue. Once she agrees you move in like your gonna kiss her, pause, and then go for it. We made out for a good 30 seconds, it was clear she was into it. After I said "I couldn't resist, I guess I owe you a dollar," and we kept talking for a minute. Then her friend came by. The girl I kissed tells me they're going to grab a drink at the bar and she'll find me later. When I found her later she brushed me off like a spec of dust for some other guy. "It was nice meeting you!" Yeah nice tongue fucking you... So here's my question, should I have gone with her to the bar? Should I have at least asked for her number first, then refrained from approaching her again the rest of the night? I didn't want to spend the whole night with her and I didn't want to be creepy and follow her around. Seems like the girls in my town always end up going for some rich douchebag with a $10000 watch. How can I compete if I'm not sticking by her and continuing to build a rapport? Advice please.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 03, 2017 4:44 pm 
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Isaiah wrote:
How can I compete if I'm not sticking by her and continuing to build a rapport? Advice please.


I think you did the right thing. If the person wants to leave you you should give them space. I don't think building any more rapport would have changed what happened. If you stuck around it wouldn't have made you any more desirable. I would say yes you should go for the number, and try to test later. But due to her action, don't think it would have changed anything.

Everyone loves attention. At 18, you're really just flying by the seat of your pants. I've dealt with a lot of girls around that age and especially in this tech environment you can meet someone else in 1 instant. There is always going to be some better option, its the real unfortunate thing about dating. People will always try to trade up. It only makes sense.

Seems like you've seen this before. You should just go talk to other people once they leave you or you see this.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 03, 2017 5:29 pm 
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That's exactly what I did. Went and talked to other people. I let it bother me though... But practice makes perfect. I won't be a PUA overnight.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 03, 2017 11:59 pm 
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Don't sweat it, it could bother anyone. If it happens like that again you could get the girl's # before she goes back to the bar.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 04, 2017 3:04 am 
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If you are going to k-close you need to be number closing or friending her on social media. I mean unless you are just so on that you are going around k-closing all night and don't even care who you meet or go home with later. But either way, girls like that are a dime a dozen and you have to accept that a lot of the times something like that happens and doesn't mean anything. Just enjoy the makeout session and move on.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 04, 2017 3:55 am 
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Thanks for the responses, gents! I'll be better prepared next go-around


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 16, 2017 6:49 pm 
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I've gotten dozens of kiss closes on the same night. Trust me, many of them mean NOTHING to the woman. She was in a good mood, she gave you a kiss, she got pulled by her friend, possibly to some other hotter guy or shinier object. It's a nightclub/night time environment, so shit like this will happen.

Also, you had no comfort or rapport with this girl. She literally has no reason to talk to you again after she's found her shiny object.

Rapport and comfort are crucial.

Truth be told, her friend stole her away before you could do much. The best thing to do would have been not to even ASK, but to follow her to the bar, maybe make a comment saying "yeah I need a drink too".


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2017 1:08 pm 
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puaninja wrote:
If you are going to k-close you need to be number closing or friending her on social media

That's a waste of time. Numbers and social media from the club don't amount to anything.

OP, that's just the nature of night game. High energy environments are make or break scenarios. There is almost never a "I will find you later".
That said, situations in which you've connected with the girl really well and the night is more or less closing, then having that drink with her isn't the worst idea. Generally though, following a girl around the club will never work in your favor.

But like I said previously, this is the nature of night game. Once you understand that, not letting it bother you will come naturally, because there's no reason to take it personally.

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