Lazinezz or Fear ?



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 Post subject: Lazinezz or Fear ?
PostPosted: Sun Jun 18, 2017 8:26 am 
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I haven't talk to a girl almost like ... 1-2 year ? But i'm very young so i don't see as an 'weird issue' ... however i'm feeling like i'm very 'rusty' and 'lazy' when is about going outside and picking up ... and when i'm going outside with my friend and i see an ocasion to pickup ( i mean when i see girls ) i'm feeling like "What the fuck to say?" do you guys think that's because i'm scared or because i realy have no idea what to say or because i'm to lazy .... ?


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 Post subject: Re: Lazinezz or Fear ?
PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2017 3:23 am 
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Take action and you will no longer have this question. Your ego and your brain are trying to protect you from rejection. They're giving you irrelevant analysis questions to stop you from meeting women. When the reality is you have nothing to lose, so go say hi to her.


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 Post subject: Re: Lazinezz or Fear ?
PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2017 3:16 am 
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Multiple years? Of course it will be difficult at first, but you need to seek any assistance and gain any leverage possible to take action and gradually rebuild momentum (starting with small actions and goals before escalating to larger ones). It's a combination of laziness and fear because you lost (or haven't developed) the habit and self-belief.

Regarding the "What do I say?" conundrum, when creative inspiration is lacking and it feels like you have nothing to offer, I have written a handy article on the topic.

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 Post subject: Re: Lazinezz or Fear ?
PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2017 7:25 pm 
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Why are you worried about what "We" think?

We don't even know you.

A lot of guys get so hooked on internet porn that they're unmotivated by the time it's time to approach women. It takes way more effort. Porn comes up at the touch of a button and rewards the pleasure sensors with absolutely no risk involved. Why risk emotional pain, and rejection for potential pleasure when you can get it guaranteed, risk free? Its an empty road though as many come to find out and it leads to depression amongst other things.

So the answer is probably both. When you get fed up of not having the women you want; you'll rise up and do something about it.

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