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PostPosted: Wed Jun 14, 2017 9:50 am 
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Hey guys, looking for some advice on what to do next, if anything, in this situation.

There is a client of a client (I do security work) who stops by my job on my shift, clearly on purpose to chat with me. She is a hot, long-haired blond cougar. I judge her attraction level for me at 8. She smiles, asks me about my situation, my likes and dislikes, compliments me on my appearance, complains about how jerky her current bf is (she said he recently did something stupid enough to warrant her telling him to get out of her house).
During our chat yesterday, I said to her "why don't you take down my number and give me a call if things don't work out with him. Or maybe we could just hang out sometime." She said that would be great and she said we could have a lot of fun together.
Here's the thing, she kept looking at me and smiling but didn't reach for her phone. Finally she said "why don't you take my number and text me yours before 12 noon." She gave me her number. We finished our chat and she drove away. I immediately texted her my number.
This woman is hot as hell. I know if we could get together and I escalate she'd be a definate lay. She has a boyfriend though so I just cannot text her anytime.

I'm thinking to just wait for her to come by my job like she always does and kind of see if she's open to hanging out somewhere or even at my place. (I moved to my own place 2 weeks ago).
Or just wait til she gets so fed up with her bf that she calls me.

Meanwhile, any ideas about how to keep her attraction level up while she visits me at work for our chats?

Thanks in advance for the advice guys.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 14, 2017 3:41 pm 
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A. Don't fucking worry about the boyfriend, that's not your worry. [Unless you suspect he''l beat your ass or something.]

B. Send a clear bold message of your intentions. There's no point for games here. Example - "Work sucks. Especially when I’m getting distracted thinking about this sexy girl I know and her fantastic body."

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 14, 2017 3:56 pm 
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I agree, invite her to yours to avoid the BF issue straight away and make almost everything sexual.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 14, 2017 9:28 pm 
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What's the problem?

You, right now: "Hey, it's a Netflix and drinks night at my place. You're welcome to join."

Act like a man and lead. If she's as hot as you say, your dink-donk method won't keep her around for long.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:43 am 
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Arch Stanton wrote:
What's the problem?

You, right now: "Hey, it's a Netflix and drinks night at my place. You're welcome to join."

Act like a man and lead. If she's as hot as you say, your dink-donk method won't keep her around for long.


She's In N. CA til Sunday visiting family. Next time I see her I'll extend the invite. Let you know how it works out.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:36 am 
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Don't worry about the boyfriend, in general.
Don't worry about the boyfriend x 10 in a scenario where she hands you the number.

If her boyfriend was relevant (to her) she wouldn't be open to other options.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 15, 2017 8:27 pm 
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1) You should've asked her to pass you her phone when you saw that she didn't move. Always take the initiative.

2) You don't need to play this situation too cool. The girl has a boyfriend, so anything can happen. Call her and get her out. That or you'll be waiting around twiddling your thumbs for something that may or may not happen. You're doing the same thing with them number that you did when you asked for the number. "waiting around".. Be assertive.

Now don't go over texting or calling.. Just call her up once, see what energy she's giving off, and see when she can hang out. Then give her a time and a place. If she doesn't answer your call, then you leave it alone for a lil while until you see her again.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 15, 2017 8:44 pm 
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R.C wrote:
Don't worry about the boyfriend, in general.
Don't worry about the boyfriend x 10 in a scenario where she hands you the number.

If her boyfriend was relevant (to her) she wouldn't be open to other options.



Cool! Yeah I'm not worried about the boyfriend. When she stops by she said her bf doesn't like to spend time with her doing things she likes to do, said he texts her to check up on her when she's out with her friends (insecure, neediness), and she said he recently done something stupid/immature with her house that affected her (grown) daughters that caused her to tell him to get out of her house. LOL So she's clearly unhappy with the guy cuz he stopped courting her.
I'm not afraid of the guy physically either.

But I'll invite her over for a movie and drinks and escalate to the bedroom. I may even put my balls on the line and kiss her lips while she comes to see me at work! This cougar (early 50's but looks 10 years younger) is hella hot. Next time she comes by I'll escalate and flirt right there on the job. I could get away with it.

Learned a powerful lesson with the barfly. "If you hesitate, you masturbate". Not hesitating anymore.

Thanks brothers!


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