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PostPosted: Mon May 22, 2017 10:44 pm 
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Hi guys!,

So here's the story: I have been dating this girl for about 6 months now. I have tried to have sex with her recently in the car but she stopped me and told me and that first time we have sex she wants me to make love to her and not fuck. For her the sex in the car was fucking. That's the reason we decided to go on a road trip to a 2 hours drive city and have sex in the hotel (we live both in our parents house so that was not an option). The two hours drive and the whole day was perfect. I was impressed of how perfect I had manage the activities. When we got back from our activities at around 10, I was time for sex. I started undressing her but when there was only her bra and g-string left she got a blockage. She wouldn't let me get near her pussy or her boobs. So I got angry and I was like you want this or not. She said yes but. I was like but what then she said I have been with only one man this is not easy for me. So I stopped all contact she pulled me a few time but then I decided to give it another try. That time she let me remove her bra and g-string. But still didn't let me lick her pussy. We made out a little and I also fingered her but then she was on for my dick. I tried to penetrate her but my dick was not hard enough. So we decided to keep up with the make out and tried again but still didn't work. She then started a blow job but even with that it didn't work. That was a disaster, we stopped everything and we could look at each other. She kept saying that was the most horrible and embarrassing thing that had happened to her. After an hour of silence I told her that since we both want a relationship we had to give it a tried once more cuz otherwise it was obviously over. We decided that we would give it a try in the morning. The whole night was horrible we both couldn't sleep because we couldn't believe what had happen after a perfect day. In the morning it took a few hours, after we acknowledged again that we want things to work between each other we would give it another try. So we did and it worked, lasted pretty long. Did it a second but didn't last much that time. We took shower together and left the hotel. While we were on our way back, I made the statement that I was glad and we tried once more cuz it would have been over otherwise. She replied by saying that it doesn't change what happened and that this was the most horrible time for her. I feel like even if it worked afterwards it doesn't counterbalance the humiliation, embarrassing, and horrible moment she had experienced.

What should I do now?

I was think about text her today: Life is strange, everything is perfect but then a challenge comes our way. We can decide to face that challenge or let it take control of the big picture. Whatever happened Sunday, I'm glad we gave it a shot today. I feel like we both want this to work. That fact that we went beyond this challenge proves how much we care that this relationship works.

And tmrow meaning Tuesday I was thinking I should start we: we need to talk...I think I'm pregnant


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PostPosted: Mon May 22, 2017 10:54 pm 
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johnk12 wrote:
Hi guys!,

So here's the story: I have been dating this girl for about 6 months now. I have tried to have sex with her recently in the car but she stopped me and told me and that first time we have sex she wants me to make love to her and not fuck. For her the sex in the car was fucking. That's the reason we decided to go on a road trip to a 2 hours drive city and have sex in the hotel (we live both in our parents house so that was not an option). The two hours drive and the whole day was perfect. I was impressed of how perfect I had manage the activities. When we got back from our activities at around 10, I was time for sex. I started undressing her but when there was only her bra and g-string left she got a blockage. She wouldn't let me get near her pussy or her boobs. So I got angry and I was like you want this or not. She said yes but. I was like but what then she said I have been with only one man this is not easy for me. So I stopped all contact she pulled me a few time but then I decided to give it another try. That time she let me remove her bra and g-string. But still didn't let me lick her pussy. We made out a little and I also fingered her but then she was on for my dick. I tried to penetrate her but my dick was not hard enough. So we decided to keep up with the make out and tried again but still didn't work. She then started a blow job but even with that it didn't work. That was a disaster, we stopped everything and we could look at each other. She kept saying that was the most horrible and embarrassing thing that had happened to her. After an hour of silence I told her that since we both want a relationship we had to give it a tried once more cuz otherwise it was obviously over. We decided that we would give it a try in the morning. The whole night was horrible we both couldn't sleep because we couldn't believe what had happen after a perfect day. In the morning it took a few hours, after we acknowledged again that we want things to work between each other we would give it another try. So we did and it worked, lasted pretty long. Did it a second but didn't last much that time. We took shower together and left the hotel. While we were on our way back, I made the statement that I was glad and we tried once more cuz it would have been over otherwise. She replied by saying that it doesn't change what happened and that this was the most horrible time for her. I feel like even if it worked afterwards it doesn't counterbalance the humiliation, embarrassing, and horrible moment she had experienced.

What should I do now?

I was think about text her today: Life is strange, everything is perfect but then a challenge comes our way. We can decide to face that challenge or let it take control of the big picture. Whatever happened Sunday, I'm glad we gave it a shot today. I feel like we both want this to work. That fact that we went beyond this challenge proves how much we care that this relationship works.

And tmrow meaning Tuesday I was thinking I should start we: we need to talk...I think I'm pregnant


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PostPosted: Mon May 22, 2017 11:16 pm 
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Ok, I won't point out where you went wrong, but I will describe how to get a woman horny from the point of starting getting her aroused to the point where you are throwing her across the room and fucking her silly.

Us blokes can dive right in but doesn't work like that with women. Think of them like a large diesel engine. Ragging the tits off an engine when it's cold will wear it out fast, so it needs warming up first. Same applies to a woman.

So passionately kiss her, while running your hands around her neck, and slowly move them down her body, but slowly. Then move on to kissing her neck and again work your way down her body. While kissing her over her body then you can take her underwear off. When she is ready for you to finger her she will take her g string off for you, and then you start on that etc. Your other hand (or she will do the honours) can be giving yourself a hand job to get you hard, then you can start putting you dick in and picking up the speed and roughness as you go along. Move positions every so often to spice it up and you will have her screaming. Most girls will give you a BJ inbetween if you please them enough.

Same as you would do with an engine getting it up to operating temperature before thrashing it. You don't need to tell them what your next move is either. Lead them to where you want them.

That's the fundamentals, others will have different methods and other women like different things, but thats the basics. Start slow and finish with a bang.

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PostPosted: Mon May 22, 2017 11:24 pm 
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The problem was that I wasn't hard enough, and that situation caused her a big discomfort. I asked her why she didn't want me to get down her. She said, she wasn't comfortable yet. Meaning it hasn't been long enough between us. I need you guys to help me recover from that situation..


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PostPosted: Mon May 22, 2017 11:36 pm 
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johnk12 wrote:
The problem was that I wasn't hard enough, and that situation caused her a big discomfort. I asked her why she didn't want me to get down her. She said, she wasn't comfortable yet. Meaning it hasn't been long enough between us. I need you guys to help me recover from that situation..


If you were not hard enough then you need to be patient and wait, if you arouse her enough she would help you get hard. Testosterone levels low sounds like a factor if that didn't work. Maybe hit the gym and get your fitness levels up would be a start. Nearly all the women I slept with cooperated if I wasn't hard enough and never had the issue.

It sounds to me like you were both stressed, which sex shouldn't be, and if you were then you're not going to get hard.


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PostPosted: Mon May 22, 2017 11:48 pm 
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I really appreciate all you guys input, but I would like to know if I should text her something tonight. Should I ignore the fact that it ever happened


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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 4:34 am 
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johnk12 wrote:
The problem was that I wasn't hard enough, and that situation caused her a big discomfort. I asked her why she didn't want me to get down her. She said, she wasn't comfortable yet. Meaning it hasn't been long enough between us. I need you guys to help me recover from that situation..


that is the worst thing a guy can have not getting hard enough specially when finally you are getting laid with the chick you work hard to get in her pants, and yes girls get mad and disappointed, this is the second time I mention in a thread yes girls get upset if we don't perform..is different if is your wife and you have a relationship but if is a chick you want to nail and you fail is no good. the best is try not bring this up anymore with her, if she bring it up try to make her guilty the fact she stopped you the first time, I don't see any other good excuse here got to defend yourself somehow, try to make her guilty if she brings it up.


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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 12:55 pm 
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I have some friends who believe that she felt horrible cuz she might think that she wasn't attractive enough for me, that she second guessing herself about her abilities of getting me hard. They are suggesting me to comfort her, to make her understand that she is attractive to me but that shit happens.


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PostPosted: Sun May 28, 2017 7:02 pm 
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A little update,

So the whole week we kept text conversation going to keep the connection. In the middle of week she invited me to a dinner with her and go see drive-in movies. The dinner was great and we had a great time at the movies. We made out a lot and even at some point she said I love you and I said me too. But after that I knew she wanted to have sex in the car but again I wasn't aroused enough so I couldn't get it up. I don't understand cuz when I watch porn I get hard pretty quick. She told me "maybe you should tell me what gets you horny so it will make things easier between us" but the problem is that since I haven't had enough intercourses I don't even know what turns me on. When I used to think about myself I thought I would get hard pretty easily. I thought just the fact of undressing each other would get me aroused cuz I would know what's coming. But it's looks like I'm not a robot and I can't get it up at will. I don't know what to do, any suggestions guys?


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johnk12 wrote:
A little update,

So the whole week we kept text conversation going to keep the connection. In the middle of week she invited me to a dinner with her and go see drive-in movies. The dinner was great and we had a great time at the movies. We made out a lot and even at some point she said I love you and I said me too. But after that I knew she wanted to have sex in the car but again I wasn't aroused enough so I couldn't get it up. I don't understand cuz when I watch porn I get hard pretty quick. She told me "maybe you should tell me what gets you horny so it will make things easier between us" but the problem is that since I haven't had enough intercourses I don't even know what turns me on. When I used to think about myself I thought I would get hard pretty easily. I thought just the fact of undressing each other would get me aroused cuz I would know what's coming. But it's looks like I'm not a robot and I can't get it up at will. I don't know what to do, any suggestions guys?

Get a hotter chick.

My girl is hot as fuck, but sometimes it takes me a minute to get hard, or a I lose it if I don't focus. But in general her hotness always gets me hard again. If you are not attracted to a girl you will have problems getting it up, plain and simple.

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