Everyone's end goal?

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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?

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 Post subject: Everyone's end goal?
PostPosted: Fri Jun 02, 2017 11:40 pm 
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So I am having one of those nights, feeling a little down where I am questioning everything as we all do (apart from the hard guys on here)

I keep thinking of what I've had, the missed opportunities, what I have and what's to come. With women sexually I've done a lot... Swinging, older women, married women, beautiful women and not so beautiful women. Recently I have done nothing but chase and sleep with women, and i'm starting to feel hollow like no emotion at all and in the process hurting people which isn't my intention at all.

I met this amazing girl and we've been sleeping together and spending a lot of time with each other and I know she has very strong feelings for me. But I've started to back off a little, which is hurting her and I can't tell her the truth and hurt her more because I know she suffers with depression and I don't want to be the cause of any serious harm with her. I have no reason not to like her she treats me like a king, we get on like best friends, she's sexual but there is just something missing and I have no idea what, and I don't want to settle with someone just for the sake of it.

As some of you may or may not know as I've posted on the site mentioning that I've moved away from my home town with university. My ex who I split up with a year ago after five years has recently moved to the same place as me. Luckily I haven't seen her yet and if I'm honest I don't want to. I loved this girl deeply and no other woman has even come close to her. I haven't thought about her in a while I did make a post the last time I had thought of her but I thought that would of stopped, and tonight she has come plaguing my mind again.

So after years of been on this site, ups and down's, I come to the same question why are we all on this? what is our end goal? Is it to fuck the perfect ten? is it to find the "one" or is it just to fuck as many of these women we can? maybe it's for another reason who knows.

My end goal to all of this is yes i have had a fucking blast learning pick up and probably would of never had the chance to sleep with half of the women I have if it wasn't for this community. But I know my end goal has always been to find someone to settle down with. Honestly I thought I did I really thought I found that but... After pondering for so long why the relationship ended and I don't blame just myself but I did a lot to fuck it up. I became very lazy in the relationship, I gave up, We didn't do anything anymore like we used to, we did nothing spontaneous or exciting, the sex was the same, I let myself go somewhat! didn't eat properly, gained weight, lost friends, had no ambitions nothing was just pure laziness. So one thing I've learned and if there is one thing I can give you gentlemen from my experience is don't give up on yourself or her. Look after yourself, be spontaneous and romantic, surprise her and don't become lazy.

Sorry I had to get this off my chest and if any of you are feeling down let it off your chest, we are all here for one reason or another even if it's unrelated to women or pick up!

The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

 Post subject: Re: Everyone's end goal?
PostPosted: Sat Jun 03, 2017 7:57 pm 
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Your story is relatable. We often take our relationships for granted and let ourselves go. But pickup gives us the tools to rebuild ourselves so that we have options in our sexual lives. Doesn't matter if you are here for 10s, ONS, or wives. Pickup will allow you to be, do, and get whatever it is that you want, and make yourself a better man because of it, as long as you do it right.

“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

 Post subject: Re: Everyone's end goal?
PostPosted: Sat Jun 03, 2017 9:07 pm 
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masterm1ne wrote:
There was a young woman in another city that I really wanted to meet and have sex with. Ok, we weren't in a 5 year relationship, but she seemed really sweet on the phone, was sorta interested in me, yada yada. I texted her yesterday and somehow she is already moving in with a guy. We were talking last month. I was really frustrated at that moment in time because I rarely find girls that I really like. We can realize our frustrations and do something about it. It's not healthy to sit and stew in the frustration (like a break up).

The answer is not sleeping with a ton of girls. The answer is working on yourself and becoming the best well rounded person you can be. There are 1000 other things to do with yourself that will make you feel better. Women are only a part of a well rounded life. But there are many other things.

The problem with relationships is people get so dependent/reliant on that one other person that they lose track of other healthy things they should already be doing in life - such as social activities/friends, success, moving forward, eating well, working out, etc just to name a few.

Are you doing these things? Is there healthy balance in other parts of your life? My guess is no.

There is no end goal. The only end is death. In the face of death, life is much more colorful. To truly appreciate death means that you live every day without fear, and do everything that you want to do every single day. Depression seeps in the absence of not doing the aforementioned because an expressed person can not be depressed.

For your own health, you have to choose to live a meaningful life to the fullest. That means - moving forward every day, working on improving yourself every and day doing those things you love to do. If meeting new women every night is one of those things, it's a very nice skill to have.

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