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PostPosted: Thu Apr 30, 2015 10:41 am 
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i was thinking
:idea: i can't say stuff in music over the internet and have the same effect, i'm wondering what effect's are good for the internet :idea:
you said direct with restraint. this is good advice, thanks.
but is there anyway to get better effect's with communication over the internet

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PostPosted: Fri May 01, 2015 3:38 pm 
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Alright, I haven't had much success since re-joining the online dating community.

I'm gonna try 10 of these direct approaches on POF and then on OKCupid. If they don't work, then I'm just going to invest on better pictures of myself.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2016 12:12 am 
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I've sent these direct messages a lot. They do work, but for me I'd say I would get a date 1 out of every 40. If that one date was a few days off and I didn't maintain interest, odds of flaking due were very high. It's good for meeting girls that are very interested in me, but I was pushing away others that need a little warm up. I just did a huge round of 200 copy/paste messages like this. Out of about 4 I made plans with, only 1 showed up.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2016 2:46 am 
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Poet1989 wrote:
Alright, I haven't had much success since re-joining the online dating community.

I'm gonna try 10 of these direct approaches on POF and then on OKCupid. If they don't work, then I'm just going to invest on better pictures of myself.


looks take priority over the messages you send.

i'd get the better pics, then almost anything you say might have better results

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PostPosted: Sat May 13, 2017 12:35 am 
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Not long been setting up dates since my early 20s. Now out of a relationship

Messaged a HB8 and after a few days looking at my profile on and off she messages back. When I sent the original message, I gave her a compliment and left it there.

So far have exchanged 12 messages, good rapport, she's shown interest so suggested a date on Sunday and gave her my number and left it there.

If I don't get a text, will talk to her a little more, if not I will next her. If I do get a text or a call, then it's a bonus.

I agree with the OP, important not to invest too much time chasing


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PostPosted: Sat May 13, 2017 4:05 pm 
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Pilgrim Miester wrote:
Not long been setting up dates since my early 20s. Now out of a relationship

Messaged a HB8 and after a few days looking at my profile on and off she messages back. When I sent the original message, I gave her a compliment and left it there.

So far have exchanged 12 messages, good rapport, she's shown interest so suggested a date on Sunday and gave her my number and left it there.

If I don't get a text, will talk to her a little more, if not I will next her. If I do get a text or a call, then it's a bonus.

I agree with the OP, important not to invest too much time chasing


Update: She got back to me, date arranged, game on.

Direct approach works


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PostPosted: Sun May 28, 2017 2:55 am 
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thanks for this thread, it helped a lot in just being direct and cutting the bs i used to use.


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