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Another OP update:
i had reflected on this situation and realized that my attitude towards her and game in general was wrong. we made plans to meet and i went over to her place. i went to see her mainly because i was curious why she would even want to see me after what i said to her, and to get to know more about her
she was tense and in closed body posture when i got there. we just hung out and talked, got closer and eventually things escalated on their own. it just felt natural, like 'it just happened'.
i guess when she saw that i had no agenda, or that i wasnt 'trying' to make anything happen, it took the pressure off her and she relaxed. besides that i really dont know how to describe what lead to sex, it just flowed.
huge lessons learned from this. thanks for the advice all
Nice! Yea, just stay chill and operate under the assumption that most of these girls just want to have sex when all is said and done. Don't get too far in your head and play it cool and you'll probably get your dick wet.