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I was thinking of shooting a message saying "I realize you were uncomfortable giving your number, how do you feel about getting to know each other over facebook a little better, first?"
Don't send that. Live in the moment, and avoid meta talks with new women. After you explained yourself a bit, I don't feel the Facebook ad is all that bad. It's not ideal, but what do you have to lose, lol.
If you do add her, have a purpose. message her right away with an invite. Don't just add her and then fall back into her pool of stalky orbiters.