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I'm too much of a dimwitt to get it done
Don't be hard on yourself, a lot of women simply won't cheat and are good gf's.
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cause I did approached them and they did give me their numbers even after one of those women verbally stated that she had a bf before handed it over to me.
That's hilarious. A woman who gives you her number while having a bf wants it pretty bad. Still, she's probably conflicted.
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I that point, I'm flirting with them by calling or texting them, so far they respond positively, and then I tried to invite them to my place or ask them if I can drop by, but they keep bringing up that ''I have a bf'' BS.
How old are these women, BTW?
They could also just be using your for attention/validation. There are women who are bored with the sex in their relationship, but are still very much emotionally-invested. They'll use men or "orbiters" in this way to fulfill a need without ever touching you.
Next these women immediately.
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I can read between the lines and I confront them openly when I tell them what I want. But there's something I'm doing wrong and that's what I need to get fixed.
It's a number's game.
All you can do is be confident and go for what you want in a fun way. Also, beware of over-contacting them. Remember that they probably gave you their number because they're under-stimulated in their relationship (too many movie pizza nights, sex getting worse, etc). Bring up "fun" a lot, to contrast with her boring relationship. Be positive, always, pluck her from the mundane. Never debbie downer, never meta-talk, never talk about her relationship or her man.
An ideal exchange via text after you get a number from a taken girl:
You: Hey, this is XXX. Up to anything
fun?
Her: Haha, I wish.
You: Cool. Let's hang out later, around 10. I think we'd
have a blast.
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: Let's get into trouble, then. The
good and crazy
fun kind.
Her: I don't know. What do you have in mind?
You: Everything.