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You're being a bit too rough bro. This is where too much PUA can steer you wrong.
The entire things spawned from her not feeling loved or cared about. She would more than likely had sex with you, but she said that just to see if you cared. Now I understand where you're coming from, and perfectly okay for you to not want to go because of how she choose to project herself. I get it. I would've probably done the same.
Where you're doing too much though is when she text you the next day about the exaggerated syptoms and you're still carrying the same attitude. Sure she's exaggerating, but it all stems back to the night before of her feeling uncared for or loved. She's seeing if you care now. Give her a little of that.
This is where girls go off looking for that temporary beta simp. She'll miss you and may come back, but things will have already been ruined.
You gotta lighten up a bit.
I texted her this morning
Me: I was asleep. Hope you're feeling better today.
She didn't respond for hours so I sent her another text.
Me: I wanna see you. Hope you're feeling better today.
Her: Busy
Me: When are you free then
Her: Probably tomorrow
Me: I'll pick you up from your place at 6 tomorrow
*No response from her, but she uploads a snapchat story*
*I wait a few hours*
Me: FYI - I don't like the direction things are going lately, and I don't think you do either. It's slowly poisoning our relationship. We seriously need to get to the bottom of this ASAP and make things fun again. ARe you at your place tonight?
Her: No
Me: I don't appreciate this attitude that you have with me and you being short all day, and not confirming with me for tomorrow. I'm going to leave you alone and you can reach out to me when you're normal.
Her: Ok
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You see... this is why I think reward and punishment is great. Women just aren't logical so me trying to explain things to them will result in the above ^^ Her giving me short ass responses, etc. I think i should've never said any fucking thing after I said "Hope you're feeling better" until she responded. Yeah of course she will come back around when she's feeling better.... but had I not given her my time and send more texts after "Hope you're feeling better" I think it would've been better as she still would've came back around, just without me having to text all the other stuff, etc.