Update:

After about 4 months, this is what I did 4 or 5 days ago at 11 pm:

Using a diferrent number I texted her a youtube link to a song that I thought was cool ( we had NOT listened to it together before, but it was a style of music that I usually listen to)

Her (within seconds): Who's this?

Me: Doesn't matter who I am. Enjoy the music.

Her: Not going to listen to it, because I don't know who you are.

Me: What difference does it make?

Her: That link could be a virus or something. I don't know who you are. I don't trust you.

Me: It's a youtube link. How can it be a virus?

Her: dude I don't have to explain myself. Good luck.

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Any thoughts? Did she know it was me? Would it have been better to identify myself? Should I do anything now?

Any thoughts or advice are highly appreciated, except the good old "date other girls"

Before you start asking questions, why the fuck would you do that? What did you hope to accomplish?

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I was hoping to start a conversation, but it didn't go that way. I wasn't expecting a quick "who's this?" response.

I wish I had identified myself, but then again I don't know what would have happened if I had.

Can you tell me what you think about the questions? And if you have any suggestion on how to initiate contact with her?

That is creepy and stalkerish, sorry but that's what it is.

On top of that you didn't even open with a conversation. Big red flag to girl's.

If you want to chat girls up online, try a dating website and do it properly. There are many tutorials on this forum about how to set up a good profile and the changes I made and the words I use as openers has seen my phone blow up with messages.

Sorry if it sounds harsh but it is what it is

Well, sounds like you have no clue about this thread, sir.

You're not wanting to let go of a woman that doesn't want you. If she thought it was you, then you know that after 4 or 5 days of you doing this tactic that she doesn't care to talk to you. It wouldn't matter if you identified yourself or not, she's done with you. You have to let this go.

As R.C said, she does not want you in her life.

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I swear the biggest obstacle towards success, for 90% of guys on this forum, is their own selves.
Is self destructing some kind of hobby or what?

Now OP, I'd like you to use logic for a moment here and put yourself in her shoes. She gets a link from a unknown number, from someone that may or may not know her.
Now you tell me, because I honestly don't know. What's worse? A guy that knows here and approaches from a different number with some weird link, or a guy that doesn't know her and sends the same weird link?
Would you, in her shoes, click it? And furthermore, would you be inclined to have any sort of interaction with that person?

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You're acting like a stalker, Prince.

Stop drinking and meet other women.

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This forum and its so called PUA's will give you the same "advice" for every situation.

I'm really tired of typing 10 parahraphs explaining every detail and then come back and see this kind of advice:

Jack: Why the fuck are you doing what you're doing?

R.C: You can't do that!

Arch: Fuck other women

That's it, even when I emphasize what kind of advice I want, these "gurus" just repeat their script.

I explain the situation and ask for advice and solution to get this??? What kind of solution is that???

It feels like I'm writing my stories here and a bunch of robots post their signature responses...

What you're doing and what you want to do will give you a restraining order down the line.

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Do you have any kind of cognitive ability?

You've been told a hundred times over to let this woman live her life and you keep going back to your dysfunctional fucking fantasy.

I'm sorry, are you paying me to do this? Do I owe you shit? You should be grateful people are taking the time to try and guide your dense ass in the first place.

This is not the advice you want? Tough fucking luck. This is the advice that works. The fuck do you think you'll be told? Buy her a 101 roses and sing her a serenade at midnight?

THIS WOMAN IS DONE WITH YOU.

The advice "you want" doesn't exist. A dead horse is fucking dead and there's no advice that will bring it back to life. You're being thought how not to kill it in the first place.

For fucking free.
It's the kind of solution that will keep your ass away from a restraining order, you absolute bellend.

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R.C, You don't need to bash me or call me names. Just look at the questions I had asked and realize that the advice I "wanted" was simply an answer to the questions.

I wasn't asking anyone to tell me to send her roses and shit. I'm not stupid.

If someone else was in this situation and I was asked to answer their questions, my answer would be somwthing like this:

She probably knew it was you. You should have identified yourself if you were looking to start a conversation with her. Don't contact her. If she knew it was you AND she wants to talk to you, you've accompliahed your goal, and she will contact you. If not, she won't and that'll be the end of it.

You see R.C? That's what I meant by the advice "I want".

I wish you had simply read and answered the questions instead of ranting and calling me names.

Pay attention the the question you asked originally. You're complaining about the answers you received although every question was answered. You're just not getting the answers you're hoping for.

Look OP. You fucked this up on your own and now you hope that some guru will give you a magical fix for your unforced errors or irrelevant actions. You need help beyond this forum because you are coming across as socially inept and unaware. Go do the newbie challenge so you can get your fundamentals right. Then when you fuck up we can have a foundation to work from.

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I think that our Prince thinks that men who are good with women are magicians who see a woman, stand in front of her, say some magic words and put a spell on her, then take her somewhere alone and f*ck her.
The point is, wether natural or trained, it's allways, more or less, a numbers game... You use your experience and if it still doesn't work on her (and in this case it seems to be terrible), you move on and look for a girl who will like you...

I've seen there are guys who say they have more than 80% success and I do believe them, but the thing is THEY WOULD NEVER PUT THEMSELVES IN THE SITUATION YOU (THE PRINCE) ARE IN NOW. It means they would play it good from the beginning, and in such situation as yours, there is no help at all.

I would add something, this happens to me from time to time, a girl blocks me etc. and I know somehow that infact she likes me (maybe too much, I don't know why they play such games, but I don't want to talk about this now, 'cause it not relevant), so this might be your case, but I just highly doubt it, when I see your last conversation...

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I mean you couldn't even have made a game out of it? Tell her you'll give her a hint and she needs to guess who it is.

You can't butt heads with a girl and expect to get anywhere. You have to figure out what type of game she wants to play and what type of game to run on her. A lot of girls have short tempers and get frustrated really easily and will not tolerate what they deem as an unnecessary aggravation. So when you see her getting in that red zone, change the game and get her mind in a different mode.

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